How to not "walk on eggshells"? (self.asktransgender)

submitted 1 month ago by P4ulin_Kbana to c/asktransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Some time ago, I was seeing a post online about "walking on eggshells" and how people were annoyed at this, and it made me think a little. I always try my best to be a respectful and decent person, but when the matter is trans people I do get a bit nervous (I'm an introvert, by the way. I'm already a bit nervous by default). How can I be sure that I'm not offending someone while also not looking so worried about it?

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[-] MxRemy@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago

I could be wrong, but I think it's mostly a matter of familiarity? If a cis person is familiar enough with the trans experience and struggles, they're not gonna say anything that's a problem, because it'll be obvious.

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