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[–] TheGuyTM3@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

A thing beyond our understanding on this world, I wish that thoses humans on top of the world would understand at least once that they can't control everything, and that the world stays full of wonder.

I would have said also yōkais, but i actually believe in them so it doesn't count i suppose.

[–] Kwakigra@beehaw.org 4 points 22 hours ago

That Democracy can be an effective check on Capitalism. Liberalism is my favorite fairy tale. If all the propaganda I was fed as a kid in the 90s was actually true, I'd be in paradise.

[–] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Good things happen to good people

[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The world was ruled by the Illuminati and they were compassionate about it. Because what we are ruled by is a bunch of assholes.

[–] ParlaMint@lemmy.ml 2 points 23 hours ago

LOL. This is great! A few weeks ago the illuminati was some sort of boogeyman. Today, things are so bad @KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml is praying for boogeyman to be real. There are some genuinely great answers here but I really identify with this one, personally.

[–] winni@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

diskworld. I specially like the city watch

[–] leadore@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

That life is fair.

[–] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The notion that "facts matter".

I've spent my entire life believing that facts don't care about feelings. That scientific truth doesn't require your belief in it in order to be true. That at the end of the day, reasoning will beat emotion...

By far the most dis-heartening thing about the last few years (to me) has been accepting the idea they "facts" are "whatever is shouted the loudest".

It, more than anything else, makes me feel helpless. If the enemy isn't even playing with the same fact-sheet... How do you even begin to fight that?

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago

I recommend reading False Witnesses and following it up with Masses, Elites, and Rebels: The Theory of "Brainwashing." People license themselves to believe what's convenient, not what's true.

[–] drq@mastodon.ml 6 points 1 day ago

@ParlaMint Afterlife.

Death is boring and awful. I don't want it. Nobody really wants it. If you think you do, a) get help and b) you really don't.

[–] cypherpunks@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)
[–] hornywarthogfart@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That people are inherently good. This not being the case is reinforced near daily by people's behaviors.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 3 hours ago

I found a wallet on the ground by a truck outside a store recently that had a lot of cash in it. I looked at the license and while I was heading in to see if they could call the owner I saw the guy rushing back out of the store looking panicked. I gave him his wallet back and he acted like I was the one that took it from him. If I was gonna steal from you I'd have cleaned it out and tossed it asshole. Then later when I mentioned that id found a wallet and returned my coworkers were all giving me shit for not just stealing his money. Not one person out of 8 had any opinion other than just steal it. I already don't have a great opinion of people but that really reinforced my opinion.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 112 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Most people at their core are good people

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 27 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I don't remember where I read this quote originally and I can only paraphrase it, but observing people living in a capitalist society and concluding that human nature is self-centeredness and greed is equivalent to observing workers in a factory that is poisoning their lungs and concluding that human nature is to cough.

[–] Bademantel@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's a nice quote, thank you. I looked into it. It's by Andrew Collier:

To look at people in capitalist society and conclude that human nature is egoism, is like looking at people in a factory where pollution is destroying their lungs and saying that it is human nature to cough.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Primary goal is to survive in the environment you are in, how many might have a desire to escape that environment but lack the ability to do so? Leave it all behind and live in a cabin in the woods isn't exactly an unheard of idea.

[–] Bademantel@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

The issue, as I see it, is that most people struggle to envision a society beyond capitalism. Capitalist ideology is embedded in every aspect of our lives. It appears in our mindset, in books, movies, and even in children's television shows. The narrative that anyone can succeed if they work hard enough, and that poverty is simply the result of laziness, is both powerful and pervasive.

The idea that everyone should live in isolated cabins is neither a realistic vision nor a desirable goal for society.

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[–] iii@mander.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

That's confusing cause and effect

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

I would say most people are good. However, the human brain is pretty shit and easy to manipulate. It's easy to make people view other people as not human or other to them, or to not think about them at all. Maybe that is "not good" in some definitions though. When face-to-face, I will bet every time on someone treating someone well. I'll lose the bet occasionally, but I'll be right more than wrong.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Damn, ya beat me. I'm not good people to so I know from first hand experience.

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[–] Alice@beehaw.org 7 points 1 day ago

Heaven. Or just the idea that some part of the consciousness outlives the body. I really hate that this is all I get, there's so much I'll never get to do just because my parents decided when I was too young to decide for myself.

[–] hactar42@lemmy.world 58 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Karma - there are way too many shitty people who just continue to be shitty because nothing ever comes back to bite them. Meanwhile, people who actually try to help are kicked around the most.

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[–] CapriciousDay@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 day ago

Hanlon's razor. It's pretty clear some people can be stupid and malicious simultaneously, or will even feign stupidity to hide malice.

[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 day ago

The average person having empathy

[–] TC_209@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago

The revolutionary potential of the American people.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 44 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Showing people irrefutable proof of something will change their minds.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

There are only finitely many prime numbers and I will not hear otherwise.

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[–] iSeth@lemmy.ml 23 points 1 day ago

Trickle-down economics.

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago

U.S. democracy

[–] Sas@beehaw.org 10 points 1 day ago

Ghosts. My 18 year old cat passed end of last year and she was one of my best friends. I just wish that instead of me knowing that the shades of her I see are actively produced by my mind (i notice me doing them) that she'd really spook around me, that i could just embrace the little shade and show her that i still love her. Well now I'm crying at work

[–] will_a113@lemmy.ml 46 points 1 day ago (3 children)

That our benevolent alien overlords are gonna show up aaaaaany minute now...

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 10 points 1 day ago

Fucking seriously... I wish there were aliens that could save us from ourselves, but it's just oligarchs all the way down...

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[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 44 points 1 day ago (3 children)

That humans can survive the climate disaster they created.

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[–] kernelle@0d.gs 32 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Religion, mythology and probably anything mystical. It's very easy why people believe in them, they're so alluring and genuinely wish they had truth to them. Unfortunately the only truth to be found is ancient wisdom, and even that can be very iffy sometimes.

[–] metaStatic@kbin.earth 10 points 1 day ago (3 children)

you may be interested in mysticism then.

I've always held that the true purpose of religion is to create atheists, and not in the modern edge lord I reject your god way.

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[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago

Spirits.

It'd be cool.

[–] Elaine@lemm.ee 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Reincarnation - I’d like to believe I’ve met others before, maybe even many times. It would explain some stuff like why you’re irrationally drawn or repelled by certain people.

[–] OmgItBurns@discuss.online 7 points 1 day ago

The thing that's always gotten me about reincarnation is the lack of memory of past lives. Even if it were true and some small part of a person lives on, is it functionally different than a permanent death if they retain nothing from their past lives?

[–] woodenghost@hexbear.net 19 points 1 day ago

An afterlife. Might be nice.

[–] TWB0109@lemmy.one 10 points 1 day ago
[–] crime@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

Material conditions will improve in my lifetime

[–] forty2@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The 'common' part of 'common sense'

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[–] Sickos@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

My cat can understand everything I say but chooses not to listen

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[–] Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] RangerJosey@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Aliens visiting Earth.

I know it's a statistical impossibility that we're the only life out there. I just don't believe they've ever been here. Since we haven't been either conquered or uplifted yet.

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