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[–] quack@lemmy.zip 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)

“All the battles he fought that day” sir your target audience mostly works in air conditioned offices with a coffee machine five feet from their desks, calm down.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 12 points 1 week ago

Honey, can you come nurture and restore my energy? I've been sending emails all day.

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[–] Fedizen@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

My dude has a point. Dudes need to figure out how to talk about their issues rather than expecting whatever woman is nearest to be their mom.

[–] Shou@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

Yeah. It's good to see men's support groups form here and there off the internet. Some real support that isn't baiting men into radical views.

[–] missandry351@lemmings.world 17 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Men can always care for each other and stop expecting women to do all the work.

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[–] Iceman@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't think therapy is a particularly good substitute for having loved ones you can be intimate with. Nor is relationships necessarily tools for learning to deal with every dysfunction that one could have.

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[–] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Ok let me go, men, stop fighting battles no one asked you to, your lame ass warrior complex undermines your potential for kindness.

[–] edwardbear@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (10 children)

but i’m fighting in the name of kindness, i’m so confused right now

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Who needs therapy when you can foist off all of your emotional needs on one person?

[–] twocupsofsugar@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

tbh in the world we live in i think we all need a bit of therapy. But relying on your partner exclusively for that is a bad idea in the long run. They can offer their support but at the end of the day they can't fix you and they definitely don't have the skills to guide you.

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[–] fckreddit@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 week ago

I need therapy. I also need intimacy. Since I cannot find intimacy, I am trying to make do with therapy.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Mother figure? So partners aren't supposed to be caring?

[–] Bunnylux@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think both parties are wrong here. Mothers do not need to be feminine or soft either. What the fuck does that even mean. FeMiNiNe sOFt women!!! It's just coded language for submissive, self-sacrificing domestic slave.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Soft

Feels good to cuddle? Idk I'm a wizard.

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[–] laserm@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

Or, y know, both? Most people need intimacy, but also if you have a problem, resolving it in therapy is a responsible and good option and we should stop the mental health stigma.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Heh, how bout those alphas, amirite?

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

it's insane how jreg (youtuber) gave me the most solid understanding of relationships that was so obvious that I couldn't believe we didn't understand already, it's a mixture of them all, it's not a partner or a good friend group or parents, it's to be able to have them all, a therapist can be a guiding figure a mentor and another node to release stress learn from mistakes and overall a decent person to be in contact with even if your thoughts were in control and you were in a good state of mind.

[–] Jiggs@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What a pleasant surprise among the defensive takes. Thank you for sharing it.

The most problematic situation seems to be when not having access to all of them and trying to push your partner into fulfilling all of these roles. To be your partner, parent and a friend(sometimes a therapist even). Sure it's nice of them if they can, but it shouldn't be their daily responsibility.

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