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In the past two days alone, I've gotten over 20 spam calls with none of them leaving a message. Just 3/4 seconds of silence on my voice mail. One call the other day left a 22 second blank message.

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[โ€“] MrAlternateTape@lemm.ee 1 points 12 hours ago

I don't get too much of them. I recently installed Spamblocker from F-droid. It uses a list of reported spammers to warn you that a call might be spam. And it works.

It also helps that I don't have much family or connections outside the country, so if I see a weird countrycode I already know it is BS.

And I just don't get called very often. Luckily I am in Europe, which means that if I leave my number with a company so they can call me, they cannot sell that number to anyone else.

I think over the last 5 years I've had maybe 6 calls? Something like that. I immediately know what is up and don't even pick up.

What phone os do you have?

For me android automatically blocks 90% of spam calls nowadays. I can see them in the phone history, but my phone don't ring for them.

[โ€“] ripcord@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago
[โ€“] QuarterSwede@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Nope. But I have my info stripped from the internet weekly and are on the do not call registries. I get spam from time to time of course but havenโ€™t had any lately at all. I get FAR less than my wife. I also donโ€™t sign up for crap to get discounts like she does.

[โ€“] Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 57 points 3 days ago (5 children)

My Google Pixel uses AI to answer the call in the background, and will automatically report as spam and block these calls. I haven't gotten a spam call in over a year

[โ€“] gruhuken@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 day ago

I work for a mental health research study and often have to warm call people who expressed interest to book them in for a screening with us.

Finally encountered a Google AI response the other week and got scared and confused so I just hung up and sent an email ๐Ÿฅฒ

[โ€“] Absaroka@lemmy.world 27 points 3 days ago

Hmm - I have a Pixel as well. I've been blocking / reporting but they seem to come from tons of different phone numbers. And for some reason the Pixel lets them leave a voice mail if they're blocked / known spam.

[โ€“] itsgroundhogdayagain@lemmy.ml 23 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I've had Pixels for years and the call screener is my favorite feature. It confuses so many people.

[โ€“] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Wait, where do I enable this? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Edit: Found this guide, but Spam & Call Screen isn't available on my 8 pro. So I guess it's only regionally available. :/

Edit 2: Some people online seem to have the same problem. Assigning Phone back as Spam App in the phone settings, clearing the cache and force stopping the Phone app also didn't change anything.

[โ€“] gruhuken@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 day ago

As a researcher who often has to follow up participants damnnnn yooouuuu ๐Ÿ˜ญ /lh I never know what to say to those things

[โ€“] Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

The voice is very similar to mine, which really trips people up when I use it lol

[โ€“] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

I gotta get a pixel

[โ€“] tetris11@lemmy.ml 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Uh... does your phone still ring, or does it literally answer the call and the robot voice takes over. In both cases, I find that freaky

[โ€“] mfed1122@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It answers the call behind the scenes without you needing to hear or listen. It pops up a notification saying that the call is ongoing with the screening AI, and you have an option to immediately stop the call or to pick it up. It also records a transcript of the call for you to listen to afterwards. It also doesn't screen every call, if it's a number in your contacts it lets it through to you as normal.

[โ€“] tetris11@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

(I still find that really freaky, but appreciate the answer)

[โ€“] officermike@lemmy.world 44 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] demunted@lemmy.ml 15 points 2 days ago

God I wish the whole administration would stroke out already.

No, but I'm curious, do you order online a lot, where you have to provide a number they can put on the package? I assume someone along the way makes money on the side by collecting/sharing these numbers. But maybe that's just my paranoia.

[โ€“] Donjuanme@lemmy.world 24 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Here's my tip, for Lemmy hopefully it will never get so popular as to not work any more.

Answer the phone for unknown numbers, don't say a g-d thing, just listen. Let them address you first.

If they ask for you by name go ahead and respond, if they call back answer with a generic "hi" greeting, don't let them have your voice or name before you know who they are and what their business is.

A robot will mark your number as a "dead line" and not call you again.

A person will either be trying to reach you (and know who you are) or trying to reach a living person, and not waste their time with an unresponsive line.

[โ€“] j4k3@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

I do this all the time too. The new standard for polite calling anyone is to initiate the conversation if the line goes live as far as I am concerned. Never say anything for an unknown caller, and expect to get dropped or hung up on even if you are legitimate. If you're unwilling to call me twice or thrice, you didn't need to call me in the first place.

[โ€“] Stern@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I use an app called KnownCalls that sends anything that isn't in your contact list straight to voicemail. Added bonus: No ads, free app.

[โ€“] Delphia@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Just to throw this in. If you use this, check your voicemails.

I often have to call customers to check ambiguities in their orders and people just dont return calls. Our contracts clearly state that in the event that you cant be contacted we arent responsible for any errors.

For those on iOS you donโ€™t need an app to do this.

You can go to settings -> apps -> phone -> silence unknown callers.

This will send them straight to voicemail and the call will show in the recent calls list.

[โ€“] Darleys_Brew@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago

It goes in waves, I was a week or so ago.

[โ€“] Arfman@aussie.zone 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah and I can't block them because the number changes slightly, probably using virtual numbers.

[โ€“] ByteMe@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

There is a setting in the Google phone app that's called "block unknown numbers" I think. Maybe give it a try

[โ€“] digdilem@lemmy.ml 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I did this and regretted it.

Many professional services withhold their number for obvious reasons. Turns out my doctor was trying to contact me and couldn't.

[โ€“] ByteMe@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Oh, yeah. I had the same problem with Disney+ customer service. Well. It's better than this hell

[โ€“] Chivera@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I've been getting scam texts but in a group chat with other people. They're just sending the same scam over and over again.

Yep, I got a series of those recently claiming that I had unpaid paid tolls. Each messagr came through as a group text with two or three random numbers, which were immediately removed from the group after the text arrived. I've been wondering why they started doing this. I assume they're trying to exploit some kind of loophole in the carriers spam filtering.

[โ€“] Veedem@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

I have unknown numbers forwarded directly to voicemail on iOS, but yeah Iโ€™m getting a bunch too.

[โ€“] Shaper@lemm.ee 8 points 3 days ago

This is why I live on airplane mode

[โ€“] SirMaple__@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 days ago

Not since my provider(Koodo) started offering Call Control. When humans call my number they get a recording that they have to enter a number that is randomly selected with each incoming call.

[โ€“] Kache@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago

I've had to resort to "do not disturb" 100% of the time, with the "allow contacts to bypass DND"

Not quite as bad as 20 in 2 days but basically any time I get a phone call, it's probably safe to say that it's someone trying to sell me something. It especially sucks when you've been handing out your CV and applying for jobs and shit, so you have to answer calls from unknown numbers. But if it's anyone that I actually know, they'll use WhatsApp.

[โ€“] PresidentCamacho@lemm.ee 4 points 3 days ago

Get a call blocker app, tell it to block every single phone call, whitelist your contacts. If they are not in your contacts, but its important, they will leave a message.

[โ€“] oxjox@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 days ago

I hardly ever get spam calls. Today, I got a call from a government robocaller and a call asking for someone else whom Iโ€™m pretty sure had my number over five years before me. I thought these were legit but now, reading the comments, Iโ€™m not so sure.

People are way too willing to give out their phone numbers. So many apps and websites require a phone before ever signing in. I will not use any service that requires a phone number.

Because so many things rely on phone numbers now, when I got my new number in 2020 I lost access to a number of things.

2FA SMS verification can be spoofed so itโ€™s not a secure method.

The only spam calls or messages I get are from government reps. Apparently โ€œfor government useโ€ is not illegal and itโ€™s practically impossible to get taken off the list. If anyone has a tip for this, please let me know.

Yea, I can't believe it is happening to so many people. I got so many loan calls today it is not even funny

[โ€“] danhab99@programming.dev 3 points 3 days ago

My phone number was owned by a non-for-profit, and I'm still getting their calls 5-6 years later. Google Pixel phones have a phone-bot that picks up calls, introduces itself as a bot and asks you why you're calling. So I just posted my phone number on my website to make sure people don't think that it's still the nfp

[โ€“] OrderedChaos@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I've had 3 almost every single day for a month or so.

I never set up my voicemail account because that's ancient technology that shouldn't exist. Unknown calls don't ring and known spam is auto-blocked. I sleep well.

[โ€“] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 3 points 3 days ago

I have gotten a couple in the last couple of months.. which is a lot since other than that I haven't gotten one in like.. over a year

I got 8 in the span of about five hours today. Absolutely insane.

[โ€“] HunterLF@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I've also been getting random number calls, and it's always a robot telling in my native language: "Finaly, I have found you..." and I never get to hear the rest, I just hang up, I have better things to do than listen to spam. The annoying part is that i have to answer, i get important calls from unknown numbers from time to time.

Edit: is anyone else getting this kind of calls in the EU?

[โ€“] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago

Closest I've come is recently getting a random call and then the majority of the robocall voicemail is garbled garbage

[โ€“] mesamunefire@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I had to get a new number a couple of years ago. That "fixed" the issue for a long while.

I was able to get some cheap numbers on VOIP so now I give those out to businesses that require a phone number, so that I can kill them if the spam calls start up again. It helps quite a bit. I know some people also use Google Voice to emulate what im talking about.

Honestly, most people dont even call me anymore, they just txt or video call.