Week started stressful and ended on a high note.
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this week's reading is The Message by Ta-Nehisi Coates
We have lived under a class of people who ruled American culture with a flaming cross for so long that we regularly cease to notice the import of being ruled at all. But they do not. And so the Redeemers of this age look out and see their kingdom besieged by trans Barbies, Muslim mutants, daughters dating daughters, sons trick-or-treating as Wakandan kings. The fear instilled by this rising culture is not for what it does today but what it augurs for tomorrow—a different world in which the boundaries of humanity are not so easily drawn and enforced. In this context, the Mom for Liberty shrieking “Think of the children!” must be taken seriously. What she is saying is that her right to the America she knows, her right to the biggest and greenest of lawns, to the most hulking and sturdiest SUVs, to an arsenal of infinite AR-15s, rests on a hierarchy, on an order, helpfully explained and sanctified by her country’s ideas, art, and methods of education.
I'm so, so glad your week got better and less stressful and ended on a high note!
I'm also glad you're here! Welcome to Beehaw! 🤠🐝💖
I'm 1'39" into the audiobook (read by the author), and so far, two things stand out (short of the atrocious audio editing ... every seam is very visible on account of leveling): his is the most compelling writing voice I've run into in decades ...
Because he uses my cadence and idiolect. Slightly more prone to shorter sentences, but as it's an audiobook; who knows how many semicolons are in there?
I realize this sounds narcissistic as hell, but seriously, for those who've gotten to know me over the past couple of years, is this not like, "Yeah, Pete could have totally written this were he Black"? And the parallels. First few were like "OK, we all have shared experiences." Then it's like "college journalist seeking to bring new writers into the craft" -- exactly the fucking way I'd say it. He throws adverbs as I do and throws throat-clearing clauses in exactly the same places. It's honestly really fucking weird.
The day I've been dreading has finally arrived. My computer no longer accepts a charge. It's clearly a USB port problem on the device because my phone charges just fine.
This creates entirely new problems. Now I can't look for work or schedule anything. I understand the younger generations think phones are fine for such things, but I'm using speech to text just to write this because it's fucking impossible to type on a phone.
I have no idea what comes next.
Online fundraiser for a new computer!
Thankfully, once the battery was fully drained, it started taking a charge on reboot. Which puts me on borrowed time but is nonetheless better than completely fucked.
Rather chill. Been chalking up some good wins, and have a trip planned for the end of the month that I am excited for. I live for these good phases.
Work is tough atm.
Ordered some books by / about enbies, really excited for those! My first time reading something other than fantasy/scifi in ages, so we'll see how that goes.
BUSY and I've been paying attention to the news less and less. I have to.
Rough as usual. Overworked, underappreciated. I have a driving test coming up for a new job, but my current job won't give me the day off, and I don't want to quit until I've passed that test. I'll work it out, it's just stressing me out.
Multiple people online and in person have been unpleasant dicks to me when I honestly wasn't trying to do anything wrong and it kind of depresses me. I want a social life but I hate people.
Hang in there...this too shall pass. I tend to rely on and hang out with immediate family members more than non-family members. My parents used to tell me "blood is thicker than water" and I now know that they were 100% correct.
I’m glad you have family members who you are close with.
Blood is thicker than water does not hold true for many people though, sadly. Especially not queer people.
By immediate family members I meant my wife, two sons and my brother. I am very fortunate that we all love each other very much.
Especially not queer people.
My eldest son is gay. He's fortunate that his mother and I are very liberal and non-religious. I've had many queer friends with unsupportive parents and it is very sad.
I'll admit a curiosity about you starting r/AskBibleScholars as a secular guy. This said, what finally grounded me and set me on my writing path was a Catholic deacon who was my English professor at community college who left religion at the door and only cared whether you backed up your thesis with data (in contrast to high school, which was pure regurgitation).
Granted, I was still in high school. But my semester abroad caused all sorts of issues when I got home that led to me having to take college classes because the stuff offered in fall wasn't offered in spring. By senior year, I was taking only one course at the high school (completely pointless, at that, as it was Calculus BC, and I'd already gotten a 5 on the Calc AB AP test), just to remain enrolled -- I was not required to show up for class unless I had an SCC course that morning to head off to, meaning three days a week, where I also had the exemption to "no food in class" rule.
After rolling in from a bagel place thrice weekly, I realized the absurdity of secondary schooling and found I much preferred being treated like a functional human. And this was a top-50 high school in the country that told me to stick to math, not writing, and failed me for page design in beginning yearbook freshman year (by the newspaper advisor, so I was dead in the water there).
You bet your ass when I came home to visit, I headed to my high school and pointed out my national awards for, well, writing and page design. I could have left it well enough alone, but I felt they needed to hear that not everyone is going to take such advice as a wet-paint sign.
I really wonder how many people never found their paths because of such experiences.
I’ll admit a curiosity about you starting r/AskBibleScholars as a secular guy.
I was raised in evangelical Christian churches. I used academic biblical studies to de-brainwash my mind. It worked and I saw how it could help other people.
That's awesome, I'm glad you have people you can depend on.
If I'm being honest, my family is more like an anchor. None of them ever learned to help themselves and that still expect me to do it. I'm just going to try to change the part of my personality that wants a social life.
Ooh shit! I gotta read this. Thanks!
Yup! Just requested this through inter-library loan. Looks amazing.
https://open.spotify.com/show/2U0Bi9u9LSoqs2rCk9sAuw
Here's a Spotify link for everyone.
I listened to a bit today. Not what I expected, but I like it a lot.