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Not the first time this has happened either, here's another similar case in Atlanta: https://abcnews.go.com/US/mother-boy-killed-hit-run-driver-probation-community/story?id=14158040

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[–] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 149 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

The thing is, once car-centrism is established and normalized, it's so hard to explain to people what the real problem is. Clearly the kid did a stupid thing and ran into the road when it shouldn't. Clearly the driver had no bad intentions.

But somehow the thought never occurs to people that kids (and adults) will always be stupid and we shouldn't strive to make a world where nobody makes mistakes. We should strive to make a world where making mistakes doesn't kill you.

[–] TAG@lemmy.world 0 points 6 days ago

I agree that we should strive to make the world as safe as possible, but people need to take some responsibility for not putting themselves in danger and teaching their kids how to do so as well. If it was not a car, it could have been a bus, a trolley, or a heavy bike (this is a small child we are talking about). The kid could have run off a cliff or fell into the stream and drowned.

As a first generation American, I have noticed that some American parents do not teach their kids enough about how to cross the street (shocking in such a car centric society).

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 59 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

EDIT: Leaving this up for clarity, but I did in fact read the wrong link from the post. The above commenter is correct. Carry on and have a good day.

Clearly the driver had no bad intentions.

I hate to break it to you, but:

Jerry Guy, the man who hit the family and never stopped, reportedly admitted drinking "a little" alcohol earlier in the day. He also admitted to being on painkillers and being partially blind in one eye.

Guy had been convicted of two previous hit and run accidents. He pleaded guilty to the hit and run that took A.J.'s life and served six months in jail.

In a world without cars this man wouldn’t have killed a child with his decisions. But this is still gross negligence, especially the multiple hit-and-run charges.

I do agree that if anything this is a great case for pushing public transit and eliminating car centrism. But to not stop/pull over, multiple times, is its own level of selfishness.

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[–] lily33@lemm.ee 117 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (32 children)

after allowing him and his brother, 10, to walk home unaccompanied by an adult from a nearby grocery store.

Wtf, are kids 10 and 7 not old enough to walk by themselves to the grocery store now?

[–] Signtist@bookwormstory.social 47 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

Yeah, I remember when I was 7 I'd explore everywhere around my house for at least a few miles. There was a convenience store 2 miles out where I'd buy candy any time I'd scrounged up a few dollars of change.

What happened was terrible, but it was an accident nevertheless. Nobody should have to serve time, especially not the grieving parents.

[–] TankieTanuki@hexbear.net 34 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Yeah, but that was just a few miles. These boys walked...

*Checks notes*

The Food Lion store is two blocks away from their home.

jesus-christ

[–] whostosay@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago

It's fucking insane that anyone thought to charge them, let alone actually follow through with it. Multiple people have to have agreed for this to be reality. Another shit stain on humanity

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[–] JSocial@lemmy.dbzer0.com 59 points 1 week ago (14 children)

there is no evidence of speeding or wrongdoing on the part of the driver, therefore no charges have been filed.

I feel like Atlanta law enforcement might need a refresher on what "wrongdoing" means.

[–] gabriel@col.social 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

They are being real cagey with the deets about the driver. 😒

[–] alk@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

This was in Gastonia North Carolina

Edit: just saw the 2nd link, I am an idiot

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[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 34 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I have watched children be bussed across a stroad rather than making it safe for kids to cross

[–] adarza@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

more than one place i've lived at had a busy road be the 'line' separating bus vs walk to school. where i am now some literally get bussed across the road and then another block to the school, while some who live up to a mile away on the 'same side' of that road as the school get to walk.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

The neighborhood I grew up in let kids walk to school but now parents pick their kids up in cars just across the street from the school instead of making them walk all the way home.

(Though some may be skirting residency requirements so I’m not too mad.)

Then again, back in my day they didn’t have padlocks on the fences.

[–] PedestrianError@towns.gay 7 points 1 week ago

@Semi_Hemi_Demigod @HiddenLayer555 And sadly many US residents including those employed as traffic engineers or school facilities planners and transportation officials don't see that as unusual or inappropriate.

[–] anti_antidote@lemmy.zip 26 points 1 week ago

That's fucked up.

[–] Posadas@hexbear.net 25 points 1 week ago

WhY DOn'T kiDs PLAY OUtdiDe AnymOre!!!!

[–] buckykat@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago
[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 week ago (7 children)

That 76 year old man will live with his choice to drive at age 76 for the rest of his life.

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[–] SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I read it. I can't believe there were even charges against her. This is the second round of court as she was given the option of an offer to retrial. Which is extremely unorthodox.

She and her kids were crossing a street at a non crosswalk at night. A driver who had been drinking hit them (her, her daughter, and her son) and her son lost his life. Driver took off. Driver served 6 mo.

The crosswalk closest to her was 1/3 mile away, her house was just across the street from the bus stop.

[–] pixxelkick@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

...I think you read a very different article, nothing you said matches the story of the article at all?

You just making shit up? Or are you just a bot hallucinating llm garbage?

Nothing you wrote matches the articles story at all, what in the disinformation bullshit is this.

Also why the fuck do you have thirteen up votes?

None of you idiots read the story and just upvoted this hallucinated garbage? What is wrong with people.

The kids weren't with their mom, the article doesn't mention time of day, it doesn't say a crosswalk was 1/3 of a mile away, they were unsupervised, THE DRIVER DIDNT SERVE ANY TIME AND ISNT CHARGED, THE DRIVER DIDNT TAKE OFF, THERE WAS NO DAUGHTER, IT WAS TWO BOYS...

Seriously people, what the fuck, why are you upvoting this blatant disinformation?

The internet really is dead huh?

[–] SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

I realize the issue. You read the posted article and I read the link in the description. They are indeed different articles.

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