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[–] Tikiporch@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (5 children)

So you don't suffocate in there.

[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 7 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

As someone from Europe I can guarantee you that 5-10cm (2-4") at the bottom and 30cm (12") at the top with almost no gap between the door and wall are by far enough to not suffocate. Maybe put a vent in the ceiling for good measure.

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[–] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 45 points 1 day ago (6 children)

The stalls at my work have zero gaps whatsoever and the door/walls (which are made of wood) go almost to the floor. There's fairly high quality locking handles that indicate whether or not it's occupied. It's amazing and I don't know of any other public restroom in my area like it.

[–] i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I am so jealous. My old work had stalls with gaps. The whole room was a bit tight, so you couldn't just back up far enough to see the feet of the person in the stall. The locks were installed in such a way that if you pulled the door a little, it would open. (So a discreet soft pull on the door was not a good way of determining occupancy.)

The only way to know was to look in the gap.

I was about to go in a stall when I made eye contact with the current occupant of said stall. She just yelled out "YOU CREEPIN?"

I am of course not socially awkward at all and was completely normal when I replied back "no... Sorry."

Actual privacy in a multi-stall bathroom would be so nice.

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[–] Eheran@lemmy.world 54 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Am I too non-USA to understand this?

[–] floofloof@lemmy.ca 23 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

All you need to know is that toilet stalls in the USA (and Canada) have huge gaps around the doors, unlike other countries. You have to carefully position your head so you're not making accidental eye contact with people outside, and somehow relax knowing everyone can see you taking a shit.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
[–] Eheran@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] icelimit@lemmy.ml 3 points 21 hours ago

How much door fitting tolerance do you want?

All of it

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[–] jawa22@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

The reality is that every American has experienced this for their entire lives at this point. The actual popular opinion is "I don't actually care because every public bathroom I have been in since the 40s is like this."

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[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 36 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

So trans women can be discovered, I suppose.

(Edit: immediately after posting this, it’s prolly way too dark but I’m leaving it there. Also it me, a trans woman terrified of using the stall for this exact reason.)

[–] Madrigal@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’ve always believed that the whole stall concept was developed by some kind of pervert.

I mean, even when they grant proper visual privacy, that’s just one of our five senses. You can still hear and smell what’s going on next door - and I swear in some cases just about taste it.

To me, “privacy” means all senses.

Not to mention having weirdos peek over the top of the stall, which has happened.

[–] floofloof@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 day ago

As a man, can I just say that I have never enjoyed peeing shoulder to shoulder with other men.

[–] Gammelfisch@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

Man, reminds me of the old WWII barracks, open shitters.

[–] PeteWheeler@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I assume it's because it's cheap infrastructure.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah, being literally as cheap as possible is the main design driver for poop stalls with large gaps. Very forgiving installation, so the cheapest possible labor can put them in to inconsistently built bathrooms with cheap parts using the least amount of materials on the cheapest hinges with the cheapest paint and cheap replacement parts when whatever is in there fails.

Also cheap to repair when it breaks.

Also, some amount of gap at the floor level means the whole room can be sloped down to a single drain when a toilet backs up instead of being contained in a single stall. That is also cheaper.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Eventually, enshittification will hit public restrooms hard and we won't even have dividers at all. Just a single, giant hole in the floor everyone is expected to pee and shit into while a bank of CCTV cameras watches every angle of the room.

[–] toynbee@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I know of one rest stop that offers stalls with doors, but half of the door is removed so that they can see if someone is partaking of questionable substances in there.

I have heard of several, but that's the only one I've seen myself.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 6 points 1 day ago

I've seen signs for the truck stop showers saying only 1 person is allowed in a shower stall at a time that are clearly only there because dudes be fuckin' in there.

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[–] bus_factor@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You're all complaining about the gaps, but I once walked into a bathroom which had 5ft doors. The moment I walked in I locked eyes with a guy taking a dump.

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My middle school didn’t even have doors on the stalls. That was f’d up.

[–] Brotha_Jaufrey@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Let’s not forget the people who attempt to open the stall, notice that it is indeed locked, then proceed to knock on the door

[–] AmosBurton_ThatGuy@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

"Wanna help me wipe bud? This one is particularly sticky, I need to eat some more beans"

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I've heard every excuse, from making sure people aren't doing drugs, jerking off, or having sex in there. The assumption being that if people are given total privacy they'll be up to "no good" in the bathroom stall. I don't know if any of that is true, but I once went to the men's room at a big-city library, and discovered the stall walls were only 4 feet tall. (If that was meant to prevent drug use it wasn't working, there were a couple dudes in there doing the fenty lean, but I didn't see anybody fucking, at least.)

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 18 hours ago

I don’t know if any of that is true,

As someone who worked retail for many years when I was younger, I can assure you that it is absolutely true. People get up to insane shit in public restrooms.

[–] floofloof@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So the non-private pooing is actually continuous with American moral puritanism. That makes sense.

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 3 points 1 day ago

And moral paranoia!

[–] Malfeasant@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Public library where I grew up had full height stall walls, but the doors had been removed. There were always several homeless people shitting in there. But hey, at least they weren't fucking, right?

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