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Edit: What do you judge them for?

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[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 week ago

If someone carries a gun and they have a normal low-threat job and live in a normal low-threat suburb: wow, that person lives in a fantasy world, and is just looking for an excuse to hurt someone. What an absolute loser.

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Cybersecurity people with iphones. Not strictly judging them but it is a grim reminder that even the "professionals" barely understand the technological privacy dystopia we live in.

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[–] yeahiknow3@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Rolex. Evincing pathological narcissism or psychopathy.

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[–] classic@fedia.io 12 points 1 week ago

Hm. Cop uniforms. I ~~accurately appraise~~ judge them to likely be problematic in all kinds of ways that might threaten my safety and certainly that of others

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago

If someone has a good quality bicycle that they actually use: you got your shit together!

[–] Pudutr0n@feddit.cl 10 points 1 week ago

If they have a good opinion of me I know they're a poor judge of character.

[–] Hermit_Lailoken@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

Intentionally sagging pants.

[–] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 9 points 1 week ago

There's a LOT of things. Those are mostly shallow and me being a bad person though. I really judge people when they have super Christian clothing with tiny pieces of random supposedly important Bible verses. Those "don't tread on me" stickers. Really tacky shit in general. I wear a really obnoxious Goku/Vegeta hoodie sometimes, to make sure that the shallowest people will avoid me. I'm a hypocrite lol

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago

Someone normal looking wearing clothing that references a nerdy hobby/interest: this person is self-confident enough to not be afraid to admit to having a nerdy side.

If someone seems extremely socially awkward and is wearing that kind of clothing it's different. But if it's someone who looks like a soccer mom but she's wearing a Critical Role tee shirt, she's cool. Or if it's a guy who looks like a construction worker with an Anime character: nice one, dude.

[–] FanciestPants@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A fedora with safari flaps in the back.

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[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Any kind of of bumper sticker collection on the trunk(boot) lid.

One sticker with a snarky or clever saying is fine, but I do instantly judge anyone with a collage as a tacky person with poor taste and no sense of boundaries.

It matters not if I tend to agree with the advertised messages, it’s just a huge red flag to me.

[–] elephantium@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

I also think a collage of bumper stickers looks tacky. I wouldn't condemn it in such strong terms as you used, however.

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[–] MTK@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hats. Fucking hat people think they are better than me just because they cover their head?!

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[–] 0x01@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A cross necklace

One who wants others to think they believe


A vest over a button up

One who aspires and has not yet achieved


An oversized suit and padded heel shoes

One who is orange

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