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[-] jeffw@lemmy.world 25 points 11 months ago

Sure as shit beats not existing. You can’t play video games when you’re dead

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 0 points 10 months ago

You don't know that. For all you know, this is just one arcade game out of potentially many that you're currently plugged into

[-] Chobbes@lemmy.world 22 points 11 months ago

I’m hesitant to share my opinion because I think it’s unpopular and I don’t want to upset anybody, but in the interest of making others like myself not feel so alone… I think if we’re being deeply honest with ourselves, it probably isn’t? I have a good enough life, but if I never existed I couldn’t be sad to not experience it. I want to enjoy things to the best of my ability (and have made some pretty good strides towards this lately), and don’t want to go through the potentially painful and scary process of dying, and some people depend on me, so I’m here for the time being and I think that’s good enough for now :). But truthfully if I had the choice I think I’d rather not go through this, even though I’m perfectly happy right now. I just find it very hard to go through life and I’d be grateful to not have to work and worry so much. I kind of wish it was less taboo to talk about this because it’s hard to have these thoughts alone, and I think it’d be nice if we could come up with better answers.

[-] MissJinx@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

I agree. Not existing beats life. BUT since I'm already here, I'll stay because I love my mom (still would rather not exist)

[-] lemann@lemmy.one 2 points 11 months ago

I think I’d rather not go through this, even though I’m perfectly happy right now. I just find it very hard to go through life and I’d be grateful to not have to work and worry so much

I feel the same most of the time. Thank you for sharing

[-] ThePyroPython@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

You might find this video helpful to understand that you're not alone in this.

Also I feel the same way. I'd rather not experience the pain and suffering, but I'm here anyway and therefore I'll occupy my time doing things I think have meaning.

For me that's using my ability to engineer things that people find helpful and make life better.

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[-] Nastybutler@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago
[-] u202307011927@feddit.de 2 points 10 months ago

What's ... what's the alternative?

[-] 7heo@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)
[-] u202307011927@feddit.de 2 points 10 months ago
[-] Art3sian@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

We live in a time of most access, most abundance, and most peace. Even if you’re doing it tough, you still have it better than most humans in history ever have.

Relish in that because it probably won’t last. We could be remembered as the 2 or 3 generations to ever live in a golden age of resources, space, health, access, opportunity and freedom.

I often eat a meal and look at my plate and think… the components and flavours on this plate alone come from 5 or 6 countries, while I’m sitting in total safety and comfort, while also being entertained in some way, and if I want I can immediately talk to my family or friends, who live 3,000kms away, who I know are all alive and healthy.

Some of that wouldn’t have been true two decades ago. Probably none of it would have been true for people 100 years ago. Probably most it won’t be true for people in 100 years.

We really are in the sweet spot.

[-] Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml 10 points 11 months ago

I hope you're wrong but I fear you're right.

[-] Zippy@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

You could be wrong. People may have thought what you thought 100 years ago thinking it could not get much better.

But you are right on that we live in one of the most prosperous times in history. Was said well. Possibly the next big change will be the ability to control our DNA evolution or discover a real understanding of the human brain in ways that may result in a change to humanity that would be completely foreign to us. They might think that is the pinnacle.

[-] MedicPigBabySaver@lemm.ee 15 points 11 months ago

Yes. Must tune out any bullshit that doesn't belong in your personal bubble.

Vote, but, ignore politics as a whole.

Try to avoid news.

Figure out a way to get out of the house. Doesn't need to cost $$. Walks. Visit a local park.

Realize you do not have to put up with anyone's personal drama. Not even family.

Get a cat. Unconditional love. Easy maintenance and can be fine alone for long days or even a long weekend with the proper prep.

Live for yourself!

[-] jeffw@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago
[-] FlaminGoku@reddthat.com 8 points 11 months ago

Dogs are cool but they add an additional burden of finding someone to watch them when they can't be taken. I think cats provide a similar bond as dogs and are much less maintenance.

[-] quinnly@lemmy.ml 4 points 11 months ago

Also, you don't have to take the cat out back and shoot him when he bites your nephew's face

[-] MedicPigBabySaver@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

Correct. I love dogs. But, don't have the $ for a dog walker while I'm gone for minimum of 12hrs/day for work. And, my GF and I take many random get aways because we have 3 day weekends every week.

[-] Metal_Zealot@lemmy.ml 8 points 11 months ago

I didn't ask for this shit, I wasn't even offered a warranty. Not worth it imo

[-] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

It's pretty cool.

[-] Anamnesis@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

There have been times when it was worth it. I keep going because I think I might have more of those.

[-] WoahWoah@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Damn. Sorry to hear that.

[-] thelastknowngod@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago
[-] u202307011927@feddit.de 1 points 10 months ago

What level are you at, if I may ask?

[-] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 4 points 11 months ago

Remember that you won’t be hearing from people that aren’t connected to the internet.

[-] moipe@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

So just humans and ghosts with wifi then.

[-] u202307011927@feddit.de 1 points 10 months ago

Can't ask the dead ... the unborn this

[-] cabbagee@sopuli.xyz 3 points 11 months ago

Not by default, but if you cut life short then you can't find the things that make it "worth it" in the end. And those things, the ones that make it so freaking worth it, they're out there. They're rich and beautiful and sometimes deceivingly simple.

I've been in a "not worth it" place before. The possibility of a "worth it" place was so foreign I don't remember even thinking about the future. I'm in a "worth it" place now. I know it may not be permanent but I hope that I can at least help others make their lives worth it if not always my own.

[-] quinnly@lemmy.ml 1 points 11 months ago

they're out there

Not for everyone

[-] MrBubbles96@lemmy.ml 3 points 11 months ago

Didn't ask for it...but at the same time, actually existing beats not existing IMO. And since I (and by extension, you and anyone else) exist in an uncaring universe, I am free to live life as I please--within reason--so all things considered it's...actually not bad at all. Yeah there's sucky parts to it, but most things that are worth it have bumps in the road.

[-] Mrkawfee@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago
[-] nyakojiru@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

By itself it doesn’t mean anything, I mean for the universe a rock and you are the same shit. Imo who makes life valuable, is not even yourself, it’s the loved ones. And by loved I mean those that you can trust and add positive values to your life and of course love you back.

[-] u202307011927@feddit.de 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Meaning is principically found in relativity to something else. In a database, items only have a meaning because they've got a connection and relation. Your shoes have meaning because their purpose is to be worn, so your feet are protected. Relational beings' purpose, our purpose, is to live in relationship - with which I'm trying to say, our meaning can only be found in relationship.

Wether those relationship are pleasant, gratifying and uplifting or discouraging, debilitating and grueling depends on the habits, choices and abilities of how we interact with each other

So, by just existing there's inherent meaning (and value, purpose) included in us already

[-] 31415926535@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago

Personally, would rather not. Would have preferred a choice. To not exist is a fantasy, for all things to cease, all of this trauma, drama gone. Often wish futurama suicide booths were an actual thing.

But, can see how others would find being alive appealing. One can have some pretty interesting experiences, learn stuff, etc.

[-] NKVDawg@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 11 months ago

It's mediocre at best, but it takes less energy to see what's next than to end it, so I keep going

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago
[-] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago
[-] HowManyNimons@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Find something wholesome that you enjoy and do the fuck out of it. Or just do little bits of it when you can. Can't think of anything: try cycling?

[-] muntedcrocodile@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago

Time is the the ultimate enemy its just when is it gonna get us.

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