I think the biggest difference here is that I keep getting surprised by how civil most of the discussions are.
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For what it's worth, I posted once on Reddit in the last year (and that was related to Sync shutting down) where as I've posted 4 times so far here.
I'm generally a lurker but perhaps the newness of it makes me feel that my posts won't be drowned out so it makes it more worthwhile taking the effort.
I'm certainly not as depressed after scrolling here as opposed to redditt. The magic pixie wranglers at Lemmy don't seem to be as centered on eyeballs on the screen sucking your soul while you're doom scrolling. I'll take it as a win.
I'm trying to be! I'm definitely voting more.
100%. I've always been a lurker but on lemmy, and I don't know why, but I feel more comfortable interacting and making comments. Haven't made a post yet. Maybe one day
I feel like the nays will be underrepresented bc of selection bias so I'll be one.
So far I have not had the same engagement. But I am convinced that is bc I have yet to get used to the jerboa UI/UX. I am more active once I feel at home, was the same for reddit, is the same for lemmy.
Its great that you feel more impactful on lemmy! I think on reddit you either feel the way you have or are constantly being called a slur (say "tankie") and removed/banned left and right.
So far lemmy seems way more authentic to me. Less capital interest, PR companies, bots, astroturf, think tank/gov-adjacent hacks. I like that.
Alos writing this made me realize my mode of commenting is still very much a reddit one
Yeah, it's fun being part of a smaller community.
Im more active when I'm here and I spend less time online overall. I spend less time angry.
Although probably here still a bit too much. I should go touch grass but to fair it's over 110 F outside and I have to be near my laptop for work so, here I sit.
I'm not only commenting more (because I'm not afraid people will bite my head off for everything I say) I'm also reading a lot more comments in general. I think it's for the same reason, the comment threads seem to involve actual constructive discourse. It's funny that I read fewer posts here than I did at Reddit but I spend a lot more time per post.
I feel more obligated to contribute here because I want Lemmy as a whole to be more active. More content = more users.
I'm generally less active here right now, but I feel like I'm more free to speak my opinion, overall the community here just feels friendlier
i feel most of the people that actually made the jump to lemmy are the more mature and calmer crowd as compared to your average Redditor
This is an incorrect assessment of the facks. I believe it to be the same people that hate reddit for banning them....and me. You know... Good people π. People who like and say weird shit. People who find useful ways to use reddit....and then reddit finds out it's useful and replaces you with a bot or someone else.....
Reddit's modo should be "build our communities! And get the fuck out! They're our communities!"
I am the former admin for r/keitruck and r/Seattlegay. One day I started to notice hate messages. I might have replied. Then I noticed a deluged of that until one morning I got a message saying I was banned. I spent all my fun pandemic free time building those two places. So fuck reddit.
key word there was most
Lemmy just feels better to comment/interact with. I just feel more motivated to be active on here.
I feel like I am not yet, but I will be. Some of the subs I have on Reddit arenβt here yet, partly because theyβre either niche or liked by a lot of people that are less tech literate including their maintainers.
I have gone trough some instances before deciding on my current one and I like the stance of most that are for an active discussion, against mindless downvotes and for overall more communication than social media consumption.
The fact that there is next to no automated account making will also help in the long run I think. It makes it an less attractive target for the bad kind of bots imo.
I am a bit more active here than I was in Reddit because I feel like here we don't really find the toxicity we had on Reddit, at least in my opinion.
Absolutely. As much as I loved Reddit, I always felt drowned out due to the large user base and was hesitant to share my opinion. Thanks to Lemmy and its (currently) smaller communities, I feel like my voice has wider reach or, at the very least, less aggressive competition.
I was only active on certain small subreddits, here I am active in more different communities.
Not yet. My niche communities donβt exist in the fediverse yet like they do on Reddit, and I do not have the bandwidth to start new communities right now. Excited to watch it grow and continue to contribute where I can.
I haven't browsed Reddit since a couple of weeks now. I am definitely more active on Lemmy.
It feels like you can join in later. There are not thousands of replies in the first few hours. So commenting or participating was a waste of time before in many bigger subs. Noone would ever see your answer anyway or interact with you, so there was really no point.
Here it feels like you are actually participating in some way. I really like it.
I was a straight up lurker on reddit, I feel like this environment makes me wanna be more active, reminds me of the old days before websites were a cash grab and there was true communities
I am definitely feeling more motivated to participate here. It feels like a very welcoming environment so far.
This is my second comment since joining this morning, so yes, significantly more active.
After the reddit apolcalypse and blackouts. I became less active over there. I still check some subreddits from time to time. But, my activity is low. I only have time to be active in one social network at a time. I chose lemmy.
I feel like I have seen more conversations on Lemmy about Reddit than original content
The smaller the community, the bigger the impact of your opinions.
For example, just on my own, I can reach a good 50% impact on anything I say unless my wife says something different.
Definitely. I'm both posting and commenting way more. I need to do my part to make sure this thing really takes off!
Absolutely, I'm way more active on here. Reddit is so oversaturated, it's impossible to comment on a post before it already has hundreds of comments unless you have time to sit in New and comment as submissions come in. Here, I feel like someone will actually read what I write. Thanks for reading!
I have not been on reddit since the protest, but I didnt post or comment a lot anyway so probably not much of an impact