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submitted 7 months ago by blakeus12@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

i'll start. i saw a ask reddit post saying something along the lines of "men of reddit whats something women can't understand" and the comments were just. oh my god. the main one that made me want to puke was "when dudes walk by each other and nod" and the whole fucking thread was just fedoras with arms soypogging like it was some secret language or something. "when you nod upwards, it means respect!!!!!1!!11 when you nod downwards its aggression!!!1!11!!!!!" as if women dont do the same shit.

do you guys have something similar to share?

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[-] EelBolshevikism@hexbear.net 20 points 7 months ago

the cringiest shit on reddit often is said in response to what redditors consider "cringe"

[-] GinAndJuche@hexbear.net 20 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

The deprogram sub. It’s just children yet to outgrow not questioning the nato narrative while claiming to be comrades

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[-] SSJ2Marx@hexbear.net 19 points 7 months ago

An anime meme subreddit decided to ban the use of a specific word as it was seen as a slur for trans people. This sparked a subreddit-wide civil war, and the sub split off into multiple new subs formed on the basis of being the same as the old sub but with slurs allowed. As a bonus, the sub that banned the slur became better, because it turns out exiling all of the people who want to use a slur from your community gets rid of mostly shitty people, although the positive change ended up being temporary as the spinoff subs burned out and everyone came back to the original.

Similar story: /r/hydrohomies was born because the original "drink water meme subreddit" was named after the N word and got quarantined. Same principle applies here but in reverse - all of the people who wanted to use slurs stayed in the original, and the new subreddit was a lot nicer as a result. Although by the time this split happened the meme was pretty stale so the people in the new sub were cringey for a different reason.

[-] christian@hexbear.net 19 points 7 months ago

I've been nodding the wrong way for my entire life????????????? No one tells me fucking anything!!

[-] NewLeaf@hexbear.net 15 points 7 months ago

In my neck of the woods, it's nod down for someone you don't know or someone you are being respectful of, and nod up for a friend.

[-] PointAndClique@hexbear.net 16 points 7 months ago

I remember watching some behaviour analyst person saying that it's because nodding upwards exposes the throat displaying vulnerability and comfort with the other person. Nodding down covers the throat. Because humans frequently attack and bite other people's throats.

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[-] buh@hexbear.net 18 points 7 months ago

For a long time there was a subreddit that named after a racial slur for black people

The most concerning thing about it to me was how some of the most hateful posts were from non white (but also non black) people who were clearly trying so hard to be to be “one of the good ones”

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[-] marxisthayaca@hexbear.net 18 points 7 months ago

Asking Rapists why they did it.

[-] geese_feces@hexbear.net 17 points 7 months ago

when does the narwhal bacon?

[-] AlpineSteakHouse@hexbear.net 17 points 7 months ago
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[-] emizeko@hexbear.net 15 points 7 months ago
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[-] radiofreeval@hexbear.net 14 points 7 months ago

r/4tran. At least it's private now.

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[-] DinosaurThussy@hexbear.net 14 points 7 months ago

Didn’t some Reddit “detectives” doxx someone incorrectly in a way that got them killed? Maybe “cringe” is too mild a term for that.

[-] TechnoUnionTypeBeat@hexbear.net 19 points 7 months ago

If it's the same incident I'm thinking of, it was during the Boston bombing incident. Random Redditors accused and doxed a random student as being the bomber causing him to take his own life

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[-] duderium@hexbear.net 13 points 7 months ago

Me a few minutes ago trying to get r*dditors to buy my books.

[-] WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net 13 points 7 months ago

Back when Fox news did a piece claiming there were Muslim enforced "no go zones" in various UK cities and suddenly every American was an expert on what it was like to walk around these cities.

I had an extended argument with this one guy who insisted he knew more about the place I was living and studying in at the time than I did.

Like, unparalleled levels of smug condescension.

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