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[–] minthenry@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not seeing anyone mentioning lemmy.one and I'm starting to think I made a bad choice.

[–] CarrierLost@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

Fellow .one resident here. Love it.

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

I'm here! I read some disappointing stuff about the creator of it, but I'm not on Lemmy for the personality-worship. If it works, that's all I need.

I'm hoping it eventually allows downvoting and community creation, but I understand leaving that out at least while it deals with the waves of new users.

[–] OsakaWilson@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

The first I tried was Lemmy.ml. I applied and didn't hear back. So I joined Lemmy.world and registered immediately.

[–] tho@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

it was the only one when i joined

[–] fruitywelsh@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I joined lemmy.ml a while ago because following cool opensource projects is my jam.

I owned a funny domain

[–] esty@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] dan@upvote.au 2 points 1 year ago

I'm hosting my own. I had a free server with 9GB RAM and 99GB disk space, and it was only running my Mastodon server until now. I like the freedom to do what I want with the server :)

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

Heard lemmy.ml and lemmy.world were being overwhelmed.

[–] wanderingmagus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Because RIF recommended it

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

I joined the one hosted by my country's community. The community is really great.

[–] Deez@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

I have has a journey through a few instances.

I first applied to Lemmy.ml because I was interested in open source. I also applied at Lemmy.one and Beehaw because they were recommended on join-lemmy.

I got accepted at Beehaw. Then they defederated from Lemmy.world and sh.it. Stayed on Beehaw for a while but found a few communities on world that I couldn’t join, so decided to sign up to world.

World was having performance issues and I realised I could no longer interact with the Beehaw communities and people I had started talking with.

Then found lemm.ee I like the name, it hadn’t been defederated by any other instances, had good up time, was on the latest Lemmy code, and the admin seemed to know what they were doing, so joined that one. I don’t see myself moving again any time soon.

[–] JudgeDredd@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago

I signed up at Redditthat.com as it was listed as a recommend instance. I didn't want to overcomplicate the choice. If this instance doesn't fit my needs, I can still create another account somewhere else.

[–] C126@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

It was nearby geographically and the guy running it seemed to know what he was doing from a technical aspect.

The name of the instance made me laugh.

[–] legendaryq@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I picked lemmy.world because it was recommended and had a large userbase. I know Beehaw defederated from lemmy.world and sh.itjustwor.ks, so if you want to interact with that community, that could be a consideration against, but since the user population across all of Lemmy is currently increasing dramatically, I think everything's a bit of a moving target regardless.

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[–] Mane25@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago

I tried a few, at one point a few weeks ago I thought I would stick with lemmy.world because (then) it wasn't the most popular instance and seemed to have good resources... but then it became the most popular instance and got defederated by beehaw (and I was subscribed to a few beehaw communities). So I signed up to feddit.uk just because I'm from the UK and it seemed solid. I think if you have no strong niche interest then picking one made for your region/country is a pretty good bet.

[–] exreddituser@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Lemmy.world was the only server where I could make an account during the busier days of reddit immigration.

[–] KrimsonBun@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

lemmy.ml because when I joined I had no idea of how the fediverse worked. I'd change it to a smaller one but it really doesn't matter much I don't think.

I frequently see Stux on mastodon, and I think they're a good person so I decided to choose one of their instances when choosing a Lemmy server.

[–] Sigmatank@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

I want something spread out from a maint instance, and is relevant to me, so I went with Midwest.social. I also knew about their mastodon track record, which helps me feel secure knowing it's a good instance

[–] Narwhalrus@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It does seem like some servers have specific niches, so if you're really interested in a specific servers niche using that instance would prevent you from having to sync those communities with your instance.

I'm new, so someone correct me if I'm wrong.

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[–] readwallah@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago

Tried the bee but did not get any notification I was accepted. Fortunately saw programming.dev pop on my feed and they accepted my request.

Good thing as well that I found all of my favorite programming languages on the server.

[–] A_S_B 1 points 1 year ago

The language. There is few server that are solely or mostly in Portuguese.

[–] raresbears@iusearchlinux.fyi 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Was looking for a smaller instance (to help spread out the lemmy load a bit) which doesn't block many instances so I don't risk having an instance I want to see blocked. By the way I also use Arch

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