so closing the lid actually stops the wifi the bluetooth but since I am using swayidle for some reson suspending by closing the lid doesn't tell swayidle to actually show up even though pressing the shutdown button which I made it suspend for tests it actually works in the shutdown button
so I am guessing this is an nvidia issue I am using nvidia-dkms not even the open ones
so to mitigate this issue I though about making systemd ignore it when the lid closed and just right my own script when runs when the system suspends which is basically just
systemctl suspend
so any ideas
UPDATE_1:
yes I wanted to add that I thoroughly checked "journalctl --system" and it was not helpful at all it seems my laptop sends an unknown key that correspends to other laptops tablet mode and that is funny since my laptop has none
well and systemd basically rfkill soft block wifi and doesn't actually enable it again when the lid is open
so yeah I guess the solution I gave is fair enough I guess