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Ive rawdogged it with my real name, and a bare email (no alias), no vpn, bone stock chrome, and they still need a video selfie from me. im not comfortable with that (though i might cave eventually, i need to look at cheap shitboxes, dont know of any oother sites like that)

thanks all

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Step 1: Don't sign up for Facebook

[-] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 12 points 1 month ago

I haven't had Facebook in years, but I'll admit the marketplace is pretty damn good for finding secondhand deals. Luckily (unluckily) my wife doesn't give two shits about being spied on so I browse it from her phone

[-] st3ph3n@midwest.social 5 points 1 month ago

Marketplace was fantastic for buying and selling all sorts of stuff for years, but it is now plagued with fake listings and scams and all kinds of undesirable shit now. The scammers seem to have no problem whatsoever cranking out new accounts on the regular, and Facebook doesn’t seem to give a shit. Any time I report any of the scam listings I get a response from FB about 3 weeks later saying they did nothing wrong, so they took no action. Fuck Facebook.

[-] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

It must be location dependent, but our local marketplace is a goldmine (it also might just be an FB group, not sure where all that's at these days). Every now and again you get some dufus trying to pull some shady shit, but this is a small town where most everyone knows each other, and people are pretty quick to call it out.

[-] strawberry@kbin.earth 6 points 1 month ago

and what else do I use? Craigslist dead as he'll, autotrader and the like have comparitively nice cars

[-] Fosheze@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

If you're looking for cheap cars, check if your state/city/area has a govenment auction site. In minnesota we have MNBid and you can usually pick up impounded vehicles or old govenment fleet vehicles for dirt cheap.

[-] tonyn@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Have you tried going to some of those lower end local used car lots? Before cl and fb we used to look through the newspaper and go to used car lots. I know you'll pay a little more than from a private seller unless you haggle, but at least there's a selection. No Facebook required.

[-] Glifted@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I recommend autotempest as it searches multiple sites.

[-] strawberry@kbin.earth 3 points 1 month ago

it searches what autotrader, eBay, Craigslist, and cars.com

all those are either empty or have relatively nice car

I want that 3k dollar civic with a mild oil leak

[-] Glifted@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

The problem is what you're looking for is far less common than it used to be.

The bottom has dropped out of the market. Cars under a certain value are usually scrapped and/or parted out. You will find them occasionally but it's getting rare. In my local area I find that Craigslist has the best selection of beaters, but it's still difficult to find anything worthwhile under $4000.

Might be time to consider a motorcycle, scooter, or e-bike of you can make it work

Edit: one more thing. There are ways to browse FB marketplace without an account.

[-] strawberry@kbin.earth 3 points 1 month ago
  1. absolutely want to get a motorcycle soon (I like anything that burns dino juice basically)

and how? no account?

[-] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Not sure what country your ein, but if it's one with a non-graduated license program (basic test lets you ride any size bike) please do at least a 2-3 day basic course. In America, they allow you to skip the permit stage but give a proper explanation of controls. It's so worth it. Please don't learn from your uncle first.

[-] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Price is dependent on area. I'm close enough to a major coastal US city to commute (not California) and I can find those $3k civics. They're just 2005ish not 1995ish now. I bought a not-dead-yet 99 ranger for $2k this year which WA impossible in 2021 for "work" trucks. $3k is a healthy goal, imo. The bottom of the market has come down in the last year.

As for browsing fb marketplace, I can't get any to work. I try browse at work and it often doesn't work. I refuse to sign in there. The tips and hacks are outdated, as far as I can tell. If you have recommendations, I'm all for it.

As for a motorcycle, maybe I'm just fortunate to afford a cheap 00s one for fun, but the weather really literally rains on my parade. Commuting on one means your locked for ~9 hours into that vehicle as your ride home. Weather can change. We get 30%+ afternoon summer thunderstorms here all summer and it sucks. Yeah, there's rain gear that works well, but even if you ignore the higher crash risk in rain, you have to bring the gear with you (cargo bag) or wear it (sweat like hell) so that's a compromise. If the climate is drier, the winters warmer, the summers not so humid, and in a more bike-friendly region, that all of course improves viability. I couldn't beleive the number of bikes I saw in Mexico. Obviously, people make it work, but it's tough. Different countries have different views on hear, too - that's a big expense potentially

[-] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 65 points 1 month ago
[-] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 9 points 1 month ago

I've had two cases where phishers have tried to create an account to impersonate my aunt. My guess this is an attempt to curtail these phishing schemes.

[-] treadful@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 month ago

A photo of my balls would help in that case too but it doesn't men I want to give it to them.

[-] strawberry@kbin.earth 5 points 1 month ago

lowkey rather my balls than my face

[-] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 4 points 1 month ago

You send photos of your balls enough that your balls can be used as a way to identify you?

[-] socialmedia@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

There are options for additional checks they could explore that are less creepy.

  1. Make someone pay a one time charge. This might not give you the full details but the transaction gives more data, and shows someone is willing to back up their request for access with a paper trail which has fraud protection laws.
  2. Third party verification services. Like your bank, who already have details about you. There just needs to be a way for them to vouch for you. Credit reporting agencies probably already do this, but I kinda think this is almost creepier than giving Facebook a video.
  3. Verifying the email attached to your account is a good first step.

In the meantime I think knowing the password should at least get you logged in enough for account maintenance. You should be able to set the entire account private and take it offline with limited toggles. Restoring full access would require the additional verification.

[-] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 3 points 1 month ago
  1. You've now put up a paywall on Facebook for new users. Worse, a lot of new users are likely not going to have a banking account in their name, so there is nothing to verify except maybe a location of bank.
  2. Banks do not verify identity for people online. The few companies that do verification are major tech companies, but then Meta may not want to force users to build up an account elsewhere before making an account on their website.
  3. All email verification does is verify that a person has an email address. It does not verify that the email address is for a person.
[-] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 month ago

Instagram wanted that to re-activate my account after they froze it due to "inactivity" because I hadn't logged into it in a couple of months.

I noped out and abandoned it (because I couldn't even delete it without first going through the privacy invision to reactivate it and login...)

[-] Zachariah@lemmy.world 41 points 1 month ago

That reminds me: I need to delete my Facebook account.

[-] NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Don't forget to change all your personal details and pictures first.

They may never delete anything, but as long as they think you take them seriously, they have to accept change.

[-] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 month ago

Don't! It's fucking worthless.

[-] ItsComplicated@sh.itjust.works 27 points 1 month ago

Run, run far away and forget you ever heard of fb!!

The more this invasive behavior becomes the norm, the worse off ALL of us will be.

[-] cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago

This is the truth right here

they still need a video selfie from me

Holy shit the normie web really has gotten that bad?

Enjoy your cattle pen!

[-] Num10ck@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago

make a list of everyone that you would want to keep in touch with on facebook. then keep in touch with them directly.

[-] strawberry@kbin.earth 12 points 1 month ago

zero. I need marketplace for the cheap shitboxes

[-] CheapFrottage@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 1 month ago

He only wants it for marketplace. I can sympathise, that’s where all the really good awful car deals are, and cheap tools that I don’t need, but really want

[-] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I keep being told it’s where all the classifieds went. Where else do you buy and sell household stuff that may still have value?

[-] jaggedrobotpubes@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Anybody serious about something isn't gonna put it on Facebook.

[-] 1984@lemmy.today 18 points 1 month ago

Video selfie... Lol :) People who agree to this must be desperate to use Facebook.

[-] cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 month ago

Holy shit are you serious? You require a selfie now? So glad I blew that shit away when it was still possible aeons ago....

[-] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago

It sounds like you know but you don’t want to do it.

[-] ThePantser@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

Make a video selfie but wear a mask or use a filter to obscure your true face. Maybe use AI, but be sure to strip the metadata.

[-] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Go down to the FB headquarters and give them your pinky finger.

[-] NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

This actually made me LOL

[-] bear@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 1 month ago

New rules stipulate the butthole must be visible for your privacy and security.

[-] Treczoks@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Just give up. It is not worth it, anyway.

[-] strawberry@kbin.earth 3 points 1 month ago
[-] Treczoks@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Guess what? I have bought half a dozen cars over the years, and I don't have a Facebook account. Somehow, being a normal human and doing normal human things is still possible without X, Facebook, Reddit, Tictoc, and Instagram. Or whatever this years social fad is.

[-] ALostInquirer@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago
[-] Trex202@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Inexpensive cars

[-] Vendetta9076@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

don't. use local classifieds like kijiji

[-] sumpfsocke@feddit.org 3 points 1 month ago

Haha that reminds me: I tried to create a blizzard account to play wow classic and they wanted me to complete a 20 step captcha that would have taken 15 minutes or so to complete. Utter madness

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