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[–] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org -4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

I'm not sure I like the idea of demonizing people just because of a word. Unless it's something as fucked as the n word, it might just be a matter of dialect. Many non-native English speakers I know use female as a replacement for woman. The intent is the more important thing. Sometimes the most well spoken man can also be sexist.

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[–] GreyShuck@feddit.uk 138 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Yes, fun idea. No problem with that but... that 'flag' is a sail. They're different things.

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 54 points 1 week ago

Using a sail to fly your colours is a red flag.

[–] Coasting0942@reddthat.com 39 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Sus. Having any issue with a red flag meme. /s

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[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 40 points 1 week ago (10 children)

Remember, pirates did fly red flags as well as black ones. The red ones meant you were extra fucked.

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[–] Revonult@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I been wondering people's opinion of "Female" in some instances. Like is "First Female president/athlete/mayor/lawyer" appropriate? "First woman____" doesn't sound right and you wouldn't say "first man athlete to run 2 hour marathon" you would use male.

Most things can be rephrased maybe, but obviously using Females outside these instances is very right wing cringe.

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 64 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"Female" is fine to use as an adjective.

It's also fine to use as a noun when describing livestock, which is why it's a red flag to describe women that way.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

What is a good word to use for people who are female of any age including young children that are not old enough to be called women in addition to women?

'Women and girls' is pretty clunky when talking about something that is gender specific, but applies to all ages.

[–] jlh@lemmy.jlh.name 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

boys and men / girls and women sounds right to me

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

'Gendered violence against teenage women and girls' is really clunky. Especially if it needs repeating across paragraphs.

If there isn't something, that's fine.

[–] savvywolf@pawb.social 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"Gendered violence against females" on the other hand sounds a bit too clinical though... Like you're removing their personhood

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If 'females' wasn't used by online sexists to treat women as objects would it sound that way?

[–] savvywolf@pawb.social 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Maybe! I don't know if "gendered violence against men" also has the same connotations.

Maybe this is indeed is a case of those people poisoning the term.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

"Don't forget about gendered violence against boys!" would be a likely response to a statement about men.

It is absolutely a case of a term being poisoned, which does mean it needs to be treated more carefully but sucks when there isn't an alternative.

[–] xtr0n@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Women is probably fine to use when the ages can be gleaned from context. You can also make the noun non gendered and use female as a adjective like “female students” or “female patients”

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm mainly asking when ages span from birth to old age and the goup would basically be "female persons" or "male persons" which is clunky.

Sometimes it can be rephrased, but it often requires multiple words to mean the same thing. Plus "women of all ages" will be read as not including children.

I'm mostly pissed that sexists ruined the only single word term we have for half of the population.

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[–] Klear@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Just ask yourself if you'd use "males" in that context.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I absolutely would use males in that context. "Toxic masculinity has a detrimental affect on males of all ages" sounds perfectly fine to me because I don't know of a different label for the group and males doesn't have the same dehumanizing usage as females.

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[–] ted@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Woman as an adjective is picking up in my circles and podcasts I listen to. Woman scientist, woman entrepreneur. It may have sounded weird initially, but I've gotten over it and I suspect it will develop over time to be completely normal.

I wouldn't really compare it to the male/man counterpart, because men aren't demeaned by being called "male" regularly.

[–] Revonult@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I agree it works in most cases it works fine but like "First woman astronaut" feels weird.

I mostly didn't want to be accidentally participating in something shitty.

Edit: or like "fastest woman athlete"

[–] JovialMicrobial@lemm.ee 0 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I think both kinda sound equally weird because we for a lot of words like astronaut, the astronaut is already assumed to be male unless otherwise indicated. So male astronauts or man astronauts both sound clunky and kinda weird, and the weirdness translates over when you start indicating the astronaut is a woman by saying "woman astronaut" or "female astronaut."

The English language, and historical baggage just kinda fucked us on this one. We used to add 'ess' to the ends of words to indicate gender, but that was dropped outside of the use of waitress or actress for the most part. Not sure why that stopped, but I'm sure it's interesting and I'm going to go look it up later.

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[–] DarkCloud@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 13 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Someone should really tell everyone from the south. I had no idea until it was pointed out to me by someone younger. Changed my behavior of course, but was simply ignorant before.

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[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 10 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Or they are just non-native english speakers

[–] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 week ago

Yeah, but those people don't get defensive when you comment on it, while those who are raising the red flag immediately do. It's pretty easy to tell them apart from that point forward.

[–] krashmo@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

What a sweetheart you are. Can't even let a webcomic get away with not being inclusive.

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[–] 4oreman@lemy.lol 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

he'd probably call women maidens

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[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 7 points 1 week ago

With an attitude like that, something tells me that pirate won't be getting any booty

[–] obscur_e@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

Lmao good one

[–] RandomStickman@fedia.io 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Say they're raising a flag, raises a sail instead.

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[–] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago
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