Best services to share as a polycule family unit? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 5 months ago by AnimalPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/polyamory@lemmy.world

My extended polycule is vast(as they tend to be), but the core "family unit" of us consists of around 5-7 people. In that group, we're fairly kitchen table, and are planning to move in together this year. (Yippee!!)

Recently we started sharing services here and there. Google play games family accounts, and AI Chat subscriptions.

What other services are out there that you've shared with family and/or polycule members to save on money?

Double-hatching in c/nonbinary@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[-] AnimalPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 months ago

Love this post! You have such a fun playful style of writing and it's a style that I never see on like, reddit for instance. Emojis are really looked down on there and language is expected to be pretty standardized. I love how much fun u have w it :3

Thanks for sharing your story! :) My partner was binary trans for years before they came out as nonbinary, which far more matches their identity.

I myself thought that binary trans was the only option when I was in high school so I pushed that egg deep down down down until my early 30s when it cracked open. When I first was thinking about transitioning, the idea of fully going fem just didn't feel right for me. I feel so grateful to live in a s o c i e t y where it's more welcomed than in the past.

A helpful flowchart [AMAB] [by Grumpy-TG] in c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[-] AnimalPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 8 months ago

This is wonderful, though I feel like "I don't feel super comfortable in my body" as a pre-cursor to nonbinary identity is a narrow view. I didn't experience much gender dysphoria before transitioning, but I experience a hell of a lot of gender euphoria when exploring my nb side.

Love, Anarchy, and Drama - The Classical Anarchists’ Adventures and Misadventures in Polyamory in c/polyamory@lemmy.world

[-] AnimalPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 months ago

It must have been so much more difficult to engage in relationships like this back then. It truly was revolutionary, to go up against everyone in your life and society to follow your heart.

Transcendence: Queer Restoryation (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by AnimalPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/nonbinary@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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https://caiquirk.com

My wonderful partner Cai Quirk recently released a new book on themes of finding unique personal narratives for queer people.

In a world that doesn't have many stories for gender-nonconforming individuals to help find themselves, I think their work has potential to help many.

Cai's photography and writing delves deep into our collective connection with nature to pull out new stories from the ever-generative wellspring of life that is all around us.

I adore them and am so proud of this accomplishment, and would ask for you to please support them by purchasing a copy of their book if their work speaks to you!

Putting together a band with my partner and metamore (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 10 months ago by AnimalPlanet@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/polyamory@lemmy.world

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Me, my partner, and their partner, are putting together a band. Me on guitar, my partner on bass, and my meta on drums and keys.

I've had a lot of original music for quite a while and it's such a pleasure to be able to share it with these two people that are so important to me and watch my songs evolve.

Last night I slept over at their place and woke up early unable to get back to sleep because I'm so excited to play more.

Heck ye :)