meeting women is really easy if you're friends with women. they always have single friends who they'd be happy to introduce you to. obviously don't be friends with women just for this purpose though
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joined 2 years ago
It's fine by me, I just can't stand the british elitism
I agree that physical intimacy can make people become closer, but I'm not always sure that's for the best. I think it's better kept as something to enjoy after a deeper bond has already formed. Anyway, I'm not asexual but I am somewhere on that spectrum, not sure where though. Also yeah... when my friends tell me about their tinder dates I can't believe how transactional and almost algorithmic their date sounds. It's such a shame that it's the norm now.
I have sufficient companionship. Plenty of true friends who know and love the real me. I've been more fortunate in this than most people could hope to be if I'm being honest. I really think that when you take sex out of the equation, most of modern dating is a feeble attempt to foster this type of relationship. People are afraid to reveal their true self and so they seek one person they feel safe enough to do so with, when you can actually have this relationship with everyone you're close to if you're brave enough.
I love being friends with women but I don't love being romantically or sexually entwined with them. And I'm not attracted to men. So why pursue it? I socialize when I have the energy for it. In the rest of my free time, I want to write code.
That's the goal, man. I would be happy to never have sex again. I always felt like it was more for her benefit than mine anyway.
Honestly, I'm good. I never really used apps but I have had a lot of girlfriends through mutual friends and such. I'm just over it. I'm tired of romance and especially tired of sexuality. I just want to program computers.
Also, did you know aluminum is the original word for the metal? The aluminium spelling was invented by British people after the fact simply because they thought it sounded better. Now they act like we're illiterate for leaving out the second "i"
Do they have their own songs
Yes. The subgenre is called epunk or incelcore depending on who you ask. Let me be real with you for a second, and please just hear me out: It is the only genuine counterculture in decades. I could explain in much greater detail how this is true but it's not worth the effort since practically everyone has unshakeable preconceived notions which make engaging with this topic in good faith impossible. Either way, here's a short list of songs.
- Hard Christ - Cry My Eyes Out
- Hard Christ - Miscarriage
- DethTech - how it feels to be a complete loser
- NEET - Please be patient I have autism
- NEET - Defect
- crustsox - Put Myself To Sleep
- GEZEBELLE GABURGABLY - Nothing Ever Feels Right
- GEZEBELLE GABURGABLY - What's wrong with my love?
- Fried By Fluoride - Dead by 30
- Fried By Fluoride - why am i not enough?
- Negative XP - Life's an RPG and I fucked up my build
- Negative XP - Mkultra Victim
- Dumb as Rocks - Low IQ
The idea that incel culture begins and ends at hating women is beyond reductive. It's about acknowledging a sense of utter hopelessness and the feelings that come with it- despair, dejection, paranoia, hatred, etc. There is hardly any other context where raw emotions are laid so bare without it being sanitized for compatibility with the status quo. They know that it's misdirected, but the emotions are extremely real. If you pay attention, the music and the culture are a lot more self aware than you probably think. Everyone feels these things to varying degrees and more people are feeling it more intensely with each passing day. You know what I'm talking about. It's not just politics and economics. The social fabric of our reality is disintegrating. Inceldom is a culture of people who feel this disintegration to the most extreme, agonizing degree, and have found some small solice in each other.
I don't know why I typed so much. Whatever. Don't hang me.
me on my way to drive a wedge between the sexes until we live in genderstates and only convene once per year for breeding
an important technology we rely on is displaying a strong bias
women ought to have a signal that they are open to being approached, like a PvP flag or something