Unfunny, she asked if I was dating her because she had blonde hair. Well duh, yah part of dating is that you are physically attracted to that person but her accusing me of being that shallow guaranteed I wouldn't go out with her again. "You are a judgemental shit."

My date went to smoke pot with the band we were seeing (small nightclub)

Conversely why do we act horrified that someone in the past didn't act according to standards that only exist today and pressures that don't.

My wife does this with index cards. I have to try to figure out what she wrote down (1? l?) and she crosses out an old one and writes the new one in a random spot so I have to study the card to find the live pw.

I'd be open to using a pw manager then I read the comments here and everyone is suggesting different apps, arguing over how inconvenient one or the other it, various issues, etc. It doesn't make me feel like taking action if everything feels sketchy.

I wonder if they somehow think they will be able to manage it.

And the EU has forced us to answer that goddamn "do you accept cookies?" question on every frigging website. How many people just click "accept all" to get on with things?

I just occasionally wipe everything. I have to reenter passwords and such but it isn't a big deal.

No certs and degree isn't in CS. I just have lots of experience.

My pathway was basically:

1. Got a low tier job as a glorified intern (paid)
2. Switched jobs a few times, pay increasing each time. Chose interesting jobs.
3. Left a low paying gov job for contract work. Got hired full time by one of my contractors.
4. Have stayed at that job. Golden handcuffs.

I don't know why people get into meth and crack in the first place. They've heard all the stories and likely know people messed up badly from it already. "Hmmm, this is the drug for me!"

Both sides do this over their pet subjects

I agree. If the holocaust was unique then there is no need to say "never repeat it!" since it can't be repeated if it is unique. History says otherwise. Like you said though, this isn't some victimization competition but it is exceptional in its scale and industrialization.