Thafirton

joined 1 year ago
[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 3 points 1 year ago

You may try a few groups before you find the right place for you. Grief is hard to navigate and no one is going to have all the answers you're seeking. But there are people who can stand with you through this.

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I lost my husband almost 8 years ago and my best advice is to find support. Don't isolate yourself. For me, family and friends were there and available but I couldn't seem to open up to them. I found a Google chat group of widow(er)s that worked for me. Any time, day or night, I could text that group of people who understood this utterly un-understandable grief. They helped me not feel alone as I found my path through it.

Message me and I'll be happy to give you my contact info if you need someone to talk to.

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 7 points 1 year ago

Yep! 100% since Sync shut down. There's enough content here already to keep me engaged though not for as long as I'd scroll on Reddit. But watching new communities pop up and grow is fun!

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 5 points 1 year ago

I'd like to see embedded gifs. I miss scrolling the feed and seeing gifs and short videos play and not having to click to load a different page to view.

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 4 points 1 year ago

I felt similarly about the PT Cruiser. Horribly ugly car but the inside was designed well. Everything was exactly where I expected it to be and it was an enjoyable drive.

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 10 points 1 year ago

Haha same. I started at beehaw but am having a hard time manually adding communities that I want to keep in that feed since they aren't onfederated instances. So I moved to sh.ithust.works and reddthat.

I'll probably keep beehaw, I like a lot of what it has to offer and it's cool for it to be a specific corner for me. But one of the others will probably become my default home

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 3 points 1 year ago

I have this issue with community names too. Connect doesn't show which instance it's in without some extra clicking.

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 18 points 1 year ago

Don't be a dick. Seriously, dude posted in Not Stupid Questions and you immediately tell him how stupid his question is.

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 3 points 1 year ago

If you find that Lemmy, let me know! Still trying to find good equivalents and I'd love to add this one to my politics feed lol

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago

I am using the Connect for Lemmy app until Sync for Lemmy drops.

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've been a user for less than 24 hours, I'm sure I'm doing something wrong lol.

This is where it takes me https://links.dartboard.social/post/1030

[–] Thafirton@reddthat.com 0 points 1 year ago (4 children)

This link takes me to a random comment, not a tips list :(

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