I've used debian on and off since the late 90s, what stands out about bookworm? They've been mostly the same to me, not that that's a bad thing.
Turtle
joined 1 year ago
Yikes. Was this ever resolved? That was from march last year.
On the other hand if you grab the Pop OS nvidia iso, I bet it'll just work. Had no issues with Mint either, other than having to install the driver. Based on recent installs I've done with a 3080.
I would say tell him, it might suck but another aspect is your wife might want to find her biological father in the future. It would be weird to do that without telling the man who raised her I think.
RedHat in the mid-late 90s here too. It wasn't a great time for the linux desktop haha. I think I used afterstep or windowmaker back then. RPM hell was bad and hosed my system enough that Debian was like a savior with apt-get. Never really looked back from debian based systems since.
My only complain is it's a little too easy to click on the sub instead of the title, other than that Jerboa has been great.