antiantivax

joined 4 days ago
[โ€“] antiantivax@hexbear.net 4 points 2 hours ago

Yeah for real. Big time "no investigation no right to speak" shit from ppl in here.

People are saying fucking dumb ass stupid fuck shit like "jUsT jOiN a KiNk group hurr durr." Ok tell someone who is socially awkward to do something so out of their comfort zone as if it's like buying an ice cream cone. Fuck off with that shit.

Or shit like "i kNoW PlEnTy oF GuYs wHo aRe dEcEnT LoOkInG, i dOn't kNoW WhY It's hArD To dAtE???" Ok if you think it's so easy, try creating a dating profile for them and look at the response rate. Seriously, get some actual hard data before you use your fucking vibes to say that dumb shit.

Or some "fuck them, don't help them, that's tailism" fucknut pea brained shit. Seriously, people need to actually do some examination before they say fucking dipshit dumb fuck shit.

I've said it before and I'll say it again: I have no hope in the West because dumb ass fuckheads like ppl in this thread are basically gonna ignore and/or downplay this issue until all the lonely men are captured by the fash and are armed to the teeth. Best bet is to get the fuck out and hope they don't follow you where you go.

[โ€“] antiantivax@hexbear.net 30 points 3 days ago (8 children)

I think the fakenews and badposting sections should be banned. There are a lot of people that browse the site on mobile while not logged in and they get bombarded by badpost after badpost that are the lowest of the low when it comes to effort (e.g. "instead of getting swol why don't we get swoletariot????"). Even in this thread someone posted "I post my butt and call the website OnlyButts." Seriously, wtf. If not banned, they should be hidden by default unless explicitly opted into. Just make them NFSW so they don't show up while browsing while logged out.

Also, the site should try to be more like lemmygrad in terms of being serious about things. There are too many posts that just reek of a weird mix of ironic and non-irony. What I mean is, people will be serious when it's a topic they personally are invested in, but on other topics, they just resort to childish toilet humor and say that this is nothing more than a shitposting forum. It's the schrodinger's hexbear: topic I care about = super serious get all mods on defcom4, topic i don't care about = dIdN'T yOu KnOw that this isn't real life, it's just the internet hurrr durr it's a shitposting forum. Imagine all the global south comrades looking in on this. It's just not a good look, and yes what I'm saying is that there should be at least some degree of optics for fuck's sake.

Another thing, people need to take seriously the other pipelines that draw potential comrades away. One serious one is the joe rogan, lonely male pipeline. They may be alienated by capitalism, but on a personal level they are looking for advice on how to maybe get a date or something. Maybe some actual concrete advice (e.g. start hitting the gym, fix your hair, hygiene, conversational tips, actual dating advice). Like Bell Hooks is all good, but we can't just tell people "here read this book, even tho most ppl in society don't really read anymore." Like some actual decent agitprop that isn't READING A FUCKING BOOK OVER 100 PAGES FOR FUCKS SAKE. Like a short tiktok, then transition into shorter youtube vids, and then maybe recommending a book. Most ppl here don't even read communist theory so why such a big ask for potential comrades to do so much investment. I hate to say it, but you gotta use some kind of sales principles like not blasting someone with a huge investment up front without giving anything in return.

Lastly (and there are so many more i'm just tired of typing) the mods shouldn't poo poo this site as a way to organize. They always respond with "this is just a nondescript hole in the wall lefting shitposting site not a subsitute for real life organizing." Motherfucker the reason ppl are here is because they are isolated/alienated and maybe lack the social cirlces (or social skills to create one) to do real life organizing work. And patronizing them by saying "join an org" is just that, patronizing. The stupid ass Jan 6 guys met up due to internet shit, so why not have a disciplined "organizing" comm or something?