Then you need to find a new therapist. Not having the language for therapy is one thing. Not having a therapist that can help you find those words is another.
digredior
joined 2 years ago
You’re absolutely right. The person in this post is a fucking maniac, and they’ve completely lost the plot, but they’re right for the completely wrong reasons.
Work is useful and therapeutic for people because it’s a way to derive purpose and meaning through the things people need from you. You don’t want to let your colleagues down, or have your missed work increase their burden. It’s also a distraction and something to do besides sit at the house with your thoughts like you said.
Therapy gives you mechanisms to cope in healthy ways with the grief. Work can be part of a healthy overarching coping strategy. But it can very easily be a maladaptive way to avoid dealing with it.
There are those who work to live and others who live to work…. And only one of those groups is doing it right…
Then they’d just as quickly lose that status… rules for the but not for me.
I’m really hopeful people get their heads out of their asses and flip the majorities in the house and senate next year…
I mean, you guys have 6 states covering a landmass roughly 75% the size of the US…
Get more states 😜
I mean, you guys have 6 states covering a landmass roughly 75% the size of the US…
Get more states 😜
God fucking damnit I knew it wasn’t confirmation bias when I moved from Illinois to Alabama and though, “god damnit, people don’t know how to drive down here.”
Well that’s a bit personal, don’t you think? Why don’t you try getting to know me before you try to get into my pants?
You’re taking this way too seriously…
It’s not bottoming when there’s no consent. Then it’s rape.
Cruz totally consents in this case, but as a generality, bottoming is juuuuust fine…
As in Cruz wasn’t a problem this time.
He’s an eternal cunt and will be a problem again.
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Shit is tense here, dude…