[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 weeks ago

My cat is a tabby and does this exact thing with his paw. Feels like love.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I'm a nurse. Does that count as "blue collar"? Because I absolutely need to shower after 12 hours in the hospital.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago

Thank you for the thought-out response.

It doesn't sound like site soreness, and if you're using insulin needles, those are too small to get into the muscle anyway.

Your dose might be a little high, but I doubt it's so high that it's putting you at a risk for blood clots.

It honestly sounds like it could just be soreness from exercising more if you started doing that around the same time as injections, and your body isn't used to it. It could also be an electrolyte imbalance, as some others mentioned, but if you're young and relatively healthy that's fairly unlikely.

I usually start with the most likely scenario and move from there. It's pretty unlikely to be a DVT, injection site soreness, or electrolyte imbalance, so it's likely just soreness. If you aren't already, try adding some light stretching before or after you exercise. Applying heat should help, too, if it's just muscle soreness. I would bring all this up with your doctor so they are able to rule out the more serious stuff, but I would not be overly concerned about it.

On a somewhat related note, when looking up medical information I would stick with Mayo Clinic or Cleveland Clinic for general medical stuff. For trans specific info, Fenway Health is the gold standard (imo), someone linked to them in a different response. You can also check WPATH standards of care 8, but that's meant as more of a reference for medical professionals and it might be a bit dense.

Please let us know how it goes, and keep asking questions! It's best to get from medical professionals, but sadly folks like us don't always have that luxury.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago

Estrogen does not dilate blood vessels, and vasodilation won't cause pain. It's very unlikely that the hormone is causing the pain.

I have a few questions, if you don't mind? You said you are doing the injections subcutaneous. Where are you injecting? What length of needle are you using? Subcutaneous injections are relatively painless and shouldn't be causing any of the issues you are describing, but if you're using a needle that is too big or injecting in a bad spot the pain could be related to injection site soreness.

Pain in the legs and below the knee could be a sign of deep vein thrombosis. It's very unlikely, but estrogen can make you more susceptible to blood clots. You are at higher risk for this if you smoke cigarettes (especially if you're over 35), if you have a more sedentary lifestyle, or if your serum estrogen level is too high. Subcutaneous injections tend to lead to higher serum estrogen levels, which can put you at a higher risk for blood clots.

You said you are DIY, is anyone checking your estrogen levels? What dose of estrogen are you taking, and how often?

It's pretty unlikely the pain is from a DVT, but that is a very serious complication you need to rule out (a dislodged clot from a DVT that travels to your lungs can cause a pulmonary embolism, which can potentially be fatal).

I hope this doesn't come across as condescending, but these are the questions I would ask if you were a patient.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 months ago

Wait until you learn about the Honored Matres.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 months ago

One of her symbols is an 8-pointed star. I like to wear one as a necklace as a low key way to display my pride and still be safe.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago

I tried to, I'm not sure where? The link I followed did not seem to let me, but as I said, sometimes I struggle with tech.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 months ago

Do you know where I could find a link?

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago

Maybe I'm dumb, but I can't access this

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Online chat communities? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

Not sure if this is the place to post, but I've moved a lot recently and there aren't really any queer folks where I live. I'm looking for some kind of discord or something to chat and vent and just feel a little less alone.

I'm pretty old and I've "completed" my transition, and I'm always happy to share my experiences or knowledge if people are interested.

And apologies if this isn't the right spot for this post.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 56 points 3 months ago

This is what I don't get. I'm a nurse, and since I (ostensibly) have people's lives in my hand, we are checked and double-checked, have to do continual education, and literally everything we do needs to be documented and audited.

And our goal is always to prevent harm to the patient. Why do people who can legally end someone's life not have the same, or much more strict, standards (I'm asking this rhetorically, I don't really want an answer).

It seems like adapting medical licensing and reporting requirements would help get us on the right track, or at the very least help hold police accountable.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 months ago

I stopped reading when he said hot chips aren't woke. You don't even know the rules of your stupid, made-up game.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 months ago

The Amazon series is fan fiction. This is part of the background story Tolkien wrote.

I'm not really interested in either, as they are both soulless capitalist cash grabs, but I think this has the possibility of being a decent (although completely unnecessary) film .

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Fired from my dream job (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

Moved up to the "Big City" in October. Today I was fired by a woman with a smile on her face.

My biggest complaints were being isolated from my peers, not having enough work to do, and not receiving feedback on my work performance directly.

I was accused of working outside of scope, not being able to separate my personal feelings from work, and not responding to doctors in a timely fashion. No specific or documented instances of any of these accusations were provided to me.

So now I'm alone, in a way more expensive city, with about the same amount it cost to move here left in the bank.

I think I'm done with healthcare. As a trans person, working inside of it is fucking awful, especially in large hospital organizations. I don't think it helps I graduated from nursing school in 2020.

What now? This was my dream job, at an organization (I thought) had their shit together. It was a nightmare on the inside - no support, no community. Call staff couldn't "handle" trans patients, so we have to call a separate line that might have someone call you back.

I came up with so many ideas, ways to improve, best practices we aren't following. Patients getting dead named and misgendered in charts, at the pharmacy, to their face. Asleep in the OR during surgery.

I've never been more confused about a job ending. I literally said I would do anything, work overtime, adapt my style, learn 6 different specialties, anything I could to help.

They never even listened to me. Why did they bring me all this way just to ignore me?

The worst part, I think, is that I don't know if I will ever really trust another human the same way. I thought this was a safe place where I could talk openly about what was deficient, and how to alleviate that. But I did that, and they didn't want to hear it, and now I'm on my own again.

I really thought we could build something truly special. I guess I'm just disappointed I'll never get a chance to see what that could have been.

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Grammar rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

Come correct or don't cum at all.

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White sauce rule (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

I'd say about 100% of my woes could be solved by covering me in a creamy, white sauce.

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