Sissy stuff. Taking dildos/prostate toys in my butt, sucking off dildos, wearing panties and ultra fem dresses, humiliation (I like the fantasy of a dominatrix "exposing" me to her friends and all of them joining together to verbally and physically humiliate/degrade me), etc. I'm also into puppy play which a lot of people seem to confuse with being a furry but they're not the same (they probably do overlap a lot though).

I'm not necessarily a tough guy in the outside world but am generally considered to be fairly manly in my day job and my life in general. Basically not like a construction worker or anything but more like a head general contractor or project manager on a construction site. This type of fantasy play I guess is a bit of an escape from my daily reality.

Your body is made in the kitchen. If you can, see if you're able to go to a Nutritionist or Dietician and build out a plan to achieve your goals. This will get you at least 80% of the way if you can maintain the strict diet. Unless they're kink informed or whatever just say that you want to slim down and lower your body fat to be slender but not be super ripped or anything.

Agreed. I think organic growth is better than essentially being nothing better than an RSS feed that copies content from another site because otherwise what's the point when I might as well go to the original source in the first place. I want this community to be separate and grow into its niche on its own.

Loving them all but my favorite is the white lingerie. Gives me "bridal lingerie" vibes and one of my biggest fantasies is to have a role reversal sissy wedding (and collaring ceremony) where I'm in a white or pink wedding dress and my mistress takes the role of the man/domme/top.