it runs local on your phone, and if deleted from the phone, your account is deleted too.
This is categorically false. The accounts exist on servers for both Matrix and XMPP and hold the messages for them, so no in fact no accounts etc get deleted if you delete the app. You actually have to delete the accounts from the app first.
Building? It has been around for a long time, especially to poc.
We would not recommend Matrix, there are both many fascists on it and they didn't fix a security vulnerability with their encryption for years that they knew about. Also if you must use Matrix don't use fluffychat as it doesn't have the encryption fix yet.
Signal is a better choice for privacy as everything is encrypted by default and it has both the audits and legal testing to prove its safety and code. Something which no other messenger we have seen can honestly say.
Sure, just letting you know. No worries.
Discord has e2ee in its voice and video calls now based on MLS, so if that is all you use it for then that would be plenty secure.
We appreciate such a detailed reply.
We will respond more fully soon.
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We're kind of an odd case, maybe? We aren't sure but we didn't really enjoy sex or masturbation before HRT either, partially due to demisexuality, partially due to expectations and gender roles, partially because we didn't really know what we liked and to some degree we still don't. We also either never had orgasms or considered them pretty bad: "this is it?!"
We are less and less interested in 'content': porn, erotica etc (though whether we ever really were interested or not is debatable). Our fantasies have shifted though whether this is because we're interested in softer things now or what we've always wanted and only now admitted it to ourselves, we aren't sure.
We cried from being unable to do anything about it the other week and how much connection we need before we could even consider doing something so intimate with someone else, so there's probably also some emotional effects from hormones going on.
We also get anxiety and dysphoria from wanting things but not being able to get them met and from having the genitals we have, but they were probably both there to some degree before HRT too, might be stronger now, we don't know.
However, if you just mean the physical effects well, we don't ejaculate any more (at least not when doing things to ourselves, or perhaps from physical touch alone), we get hot sometimes when we 'finish' though 'finishing' is hard to reach most of the time. We didn't really experience random erections much before HRT and definitely don't now, so yeah. We don't really know what an orgasm would be like or if we'll ever get there but we might one day, if not well, either we'll have to shift what we want or just somehow be okay with never having them again or accept they were and always will be shit.
Anything else you'd like to know?
Ah, okay, thanks for explaining to us.
Is this supposed to be indicating a problem because like if you like a person why should it matter what gender they are?
Yes, fair criticism.
Sure, but the way the protocol and servers work there is no metadata etc unlike Matrix and XMPP, so nothing to hand over.
This is probably true of the version from the play store, desktop and maybe iOS version. However the apk from Signal's site on android might not, I am unsure.
Sadly Molly is only available on Android, so that leaves out iOS and Desktop users.