plain_jane

joined 1 year ago
[–] plain_jane@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

There are very good reasons to boo this man, but this isn't one of them. Lol

[–] plain_jane@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When there were first murmurs of self-driving cars, I used to think I wanted nothing to do with it and I didn't want it to come to pass.

Now that I've been driving for a long time... Two things: I try to be careful af but I've certainly made mistakes while driving so I acknowledge I am imperfect myself. But... The number of crazy things I've witnessed or read about in the news? I can't wait for the cars to reliably drive themselves!

[–] plain_jane@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Definitely worth getting up early for, wow!

[–] plain_jane@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

A lot of what I'd mention has already been said, so I'll add the lack of influencers.

[–] plain_jane@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The alternatives we have nowadays are so varied and some are really great at mimicking the flavour and mouth-feel of meat!

[–] plain_jane@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Amen.

And it's just so much worse if it's something I don't actually need and is on the pricey side... Like, I enjoy those canned Starbucks nitro cold brew drinks. I feel guilty wanting to buy them, I feel guilty about how many I want to put in my cart, and I feel guilty when I drink them.

[–] plain_jane@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My ex used to do the Homer Simpson trick and gift me things he wanted for himself. Often it was something he knew I didn't want.

For example, I didn't want a laptop in the house. The kids were younger and it would be harder to monitor their internet usage if they were on a laptop versus the desktop I had purposely set up in a spot where we could easily glance at the screen when they were on it. (This was before tablets and smart phones were common.)

Also, I didn't want a laptop because I'm a huge nerd who will lose hours to the computer if it's in my lap comfortably on the couch rather than at a desk. I knew this about myself and was trying to limit my internet usage.

Also, we were broke and struggling to pay bills, and a laptop was an unnecessary luxury.

He talked about getting a laptop for months and months. I kept arguing against it. So of course, that was my Christmas gift from him that year.

Normally how it went was that he would gift me something and then after a few months, it would just magically become his (he gifted me a nice car stereo one time and after a few months just upped and put it in his car, for example). I knew that was his plan... I was so fed up that I used the shit out of that laptop out of pure spite... Didn't share the password... Put it away every night I went to bed... Took it with me when I traveled without him...

Anyway. Nothing shittier than receiving a Homer Simpson bowling ball.

[–] plain_jane@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Being laid back and jokey. If I feel like I can joke around with you and not take life too seriously with you, my stress (as an introvert) has really melted quite a bit.