I'd assume so, the venn diagram of Charli XCX fans and people who like BDSM seems to be a circle. It's more of a "grungy girl" meaning with the album release though

[–] ProletarianDictator@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

Very helpful. I am unfamiliar with her music besides knowing she made a song or two with lots of radio play that I felt meh about like 10ish years ago.

[–] miz@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I feel like some kind of vanilla rube for not even being aware of a BDSM meaning. what does it mean

[–] ProletarianDictator@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

So instead of being an obedient sub who preemptively submits, a brat is a sub that purposefully disobeys in order for the dom to punish their disobedience.

[–] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I remember being on a road trip and the couple in the back was doing brat play. Far from me to kink shame, but it actually made my skin crawl.

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

I have unfortunately had firsthand experience with it in a relationship and I find it cringe.

[–] anindefinitearticle@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

I'm with you. I've also never heard of Charli XCX.