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What's the point of a long-distance friendship?
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this post was submitted on 28 Oct 2024
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The same as any friendship: mutual support and love. What you're describing sounds like an acquaintance to me, not a friend, if conversations don't develop past small talk. Maybe that's what you're missing.
Thanks for the input. I do have closer friendships in person, but once we move apart (geographically) it just sort of.. fades. Based on these replies, I think I'm just not very good at talking over text
I understand better. I might relate, too.
I'm not the type to keep relationships "alive" by checking in, but at the same time, when someone re-enters my life after even years, it can be as though no time had passed. If I can help, I will. We can chat for minutes or hours. I'm happy to pick up where we left off.
I have the distinct impression that many other people don't operate this way. I do. Do you?
Yes, that sounds like me. I've only really had it happen twice where people have come back into my life, but one of them is now my best friend again after I didn't see or talk to them for years. The other example moved away for about eight years and although we were close (before or after) we did just carry on the same relationship we had before.
In that case, I'm not sure you're missing anything and I'm not even sure you have a problem to solve here.