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WTF is happening on Hexbear? (lemmygrad.ml)
submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by SovietCollie@lemmygrad.ml to c/comradeship@lemmygrad.ml
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Hexbear's new head of operations just dropped, and their way of dealing with the fallout of their last struggle session is to hand bans out like candy to their concerned and disillusioned users while throwing out "epic" quips like insecure teenagers along the way coupled with their communication (and seemingly contempt) towards their own userbase which isn't helping their allegations at all and the revelations that were learned about Hexbear's moderators and admins from their most recent struggle session.

The last few days have honestly shaken my faith in Hexbear and their team and I hope the mods and admins at Lemmygrad are monitoring the situation closely.

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[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

No one is forced to say shit.

Never said they were.

It’s starting to look like that’s why you hate us?

I never said I hate you, what a silly inference.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

keyword: daily. I already compared it to another social situation where something is also not mandatory, but it is expected.

It is not expected. You claim it is. Stop being an overly semantic debate bro get your transphobic ass back to Reddit.

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It is not expected.

and then

your transphobic ass

"If you don't perform in my x ritual you're anti-x." I guess you gave up on claiming I'm wrong and just embraced it?

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Lmao. You keep digging that hole. I'm calling you a transphobe because you have a problem with us banning people who attack pro trans statements.

My friend in Christ, you are doing the equivalent of going to somewhere that is gay friendly and loudly shouting "I can't believe you're forced to kiss dudes here!" At the first sign of dudes kissing.

You're not expected to kiss dudes, you won't be banned for not kissing dudes, but if you loudly voice disgust every time dudes kiss, I'm kicking you out of the bar. That is not Orwellian or unfair, it is basic anti-harrassment policy.

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 4 days ago (2 children)

you have a problem with us banning people who attack pro trans statements.

Never said that. I literally wrote in a post that a website should delete transphobic posts and ban people who make them, but that I don't agree with the "affirmative ritual". Why are you being dishonest?

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, okay, you're full of shit. You have had it explained to you several times by several people.

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml -1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

You accuse me of saying something, when I tell you I never said it, you say I'm full of shit.

You have had it explained to you

Don't patronise me.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Mmhmm yup that's for sure what is happening

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 4 days ago

Glad we agree.

[–] mathemachristian@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

are you cis?

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml -1 points 4 days ago (2 children)

If I told you I was a trans black woman, would you think my argument was correct?

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

DEI accusations now? i-cant

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

You should sign-up for the strawman competition.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

point-and-laugh-1 point-and-laugh-2

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 4 days ago

Did you take that photo recently?

[–] mathemachristian@hexbear.net 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Since I'm cis I would butt out of the conversation. I'll take your answer as a yes however and tell you to shut the fuck up about "rituals" or whatever that take place in communities (in this case trans community) that you're not part of. You have nothing to gain here, no valuable perspective to offer and no hope of understanding the ins and outs of a community you're not part of. Leave it be.

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

OK, lib. Thanks for proving my point about the thread being an affirmation of group belonging.

[–] mathemachristian@hexbear.net 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

i-think-that cis people dont get an opinion on what goes on in trans spaces.

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 0 points 4 days ago

I don't understand. Is hexbear only for trans people or only trans people are allowed to be admins/mods/make decisions?