What I didn’t expect was what My friend said after making a Lemmy account on her chosen website — “I don’t like it because it looks like Old Reddit. I have to click on each post to view it”.

Sometimes people tell you something and it just ends a friendship...

[–] Kichae@lemmy.ca 44 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I'm continually surprised by how incurious people are in general. One of the first things I did when I explored Lemmy was click on the weird "+" button next to post titles, because I wanted to know what it did. And then I checked the settings to see what I could tweak.

People don't seem to do shit like this, and it baffles me.

[–] Carighan@lemmy.world 17 points 3 weeks ago

I think this is based on the way short form video has taken over as being what having-the-TV-on-in-the-background was for the baby boomers. And click-then-go-back is too complex an interaction for "noise" while having your brain off, while swiping from meaningless clip to meaningless clip in shorts or tiktok works.

[–] TimeSquirrel@kbin.melroy.org 13 points 3 weeks ago

We aren't taught or encouraged to explore or experiment by our educational systems. We are taught how to do something, and then don't question it. There are tons of people that cannot meaningfully play with Lego without assembly instructions. The idea of trying something out of the norm from what they already know never enters into their head.

Like, back in the day, I literally discovered I could drag and drop files directly into the "upload" area on some websites and it would automatically post the file to the site. I didn't even know it was possible, I just out of the blue wondered if a browser can work like a drag and drop file manager and just went ahead and did it.

[–] chevy9294@monero.town 7 points 3 weeks ago

I always open settings on every app or website to see what I can change. This gives me feeling like this is something made just for me and I will use it for longer. Except KDE, this has way too many settings.