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my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys. she writes love letters to them and stuff like that and acts super guilty when i end up finding out.

she even talks about dating these guys. should i break up?

when she thinks I don’t know, she messages other guys.

she posts the messages in the gc that she doesn’t think I’m in anymore.

she talks about doing it w guys and masturbating to photos of them :(

she also barely talks to me. she used to talk 2 me a lot, she seemed in love w me. she would have all these love letters and romantic bios and status, but now it’s w the guy, it seems.

and she barely talks to me bc she’s in the gc. then, when I ask her smth to do w the guy, she acts really guilty and says something like “oh… hi…”

“Don’t worry about it 😅”

“I can’t say”

Etc.

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[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I'm sorry I don't understand, when you say "my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys." Do you mean "other guys", or just "guys" as in to imply that you are not a guy?

Because you post on the bisexual community and are from lemmy.blahaj.zone, but then you also say "she messages other guys." so I'm not sure if you mean that she's just lusting after random other dudes in a heterosexual relationship with you, or you're in a lesbian relationship and she's lusting after dudes where there may be a very very slight grey area.

I can't see pronouns on the profile, so I'm just trying to get a clear picture here.

Either way you're like 15? Just run. You got your whole life ahead of you. Trust me there'll be plenty of people who will be nice to you. There's plenty of fish in the sea, even if you're queer (and I'm not really sure you are hence why I asked).