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Probably will post in advice sub too, but i need to talk about this (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) by galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/rant@lemmy.sdf.org

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my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys. she writes love letters to them and stuff like that and acts super guilty when i end up finding out.

she even talks about dating these guys. should i break up?

when she thinks I don’t know, she messages other guys.

she posts the messages in the gc that she doesn’t think I’m in anymore.

she talks about doing it w guys and masturbating to photos of them :(

she also barely talks to me. she used to talk 2 me a lot, she seemed in love w me. she would have all these love letters and romantic bios and status, but now it’s w the guy, it seems.

and she barely talks to me bc she’s in the gc. then, when I ask her smth to do w the guy, she acts really guilty and says something like “oh… hi…”

“Don’t worry about it 😅”

“I can’t say”

Etc.

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[–] minnow@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Sounds like your girlfriend has already broken up with you and she's just waiting for you to get with the program because she's too conflict avoidant to say it to your face.

[–] nick@midwest.social 11 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Hit bricks, man. Nothing good is going to come from this.

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

did she cheat ?

[–] nick@midwest.social 1 points 4 hours ago

How in the world would i know?

But if you have to ask that, hit da bricks. Beat feet.

[–] jawa21@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 9 hours ago

That one's on you to find out.

[–] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

🚩🚩🚩🚩

just bail out man

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 hours ago

@LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com Cant see ur post, im non binary/female

[–] Ghyste@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Considering your post history is flooded with this stuff, you know the answers you keep asking for and if it's not a guilt fetish, you're in denial of a situation you can plainly see yourself.

[–] galactic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 8 hours ago

im kinda biased bc shes my girlfriend

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I'm sorry I don't understand, when you say "my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys." Do you mean "other guys", or just "guys" as in to imply that you are not a guy?

Because you post on the bisexual community and are from lemmy.blahaj.zone, but then you also say "she messages other guys." so I'm not sure if you mean that she's just lusting after random other dudes in a heterosexual relationship with you, or you're in a lesbian relationship and she's lusting after dudes where there may be a very very slight grey area.

I can't see pronouns on the profile, so I'm just trying to get a clear picture here.

Either way you're like 15? Just run. You got your whole life ahead of you. Trust me there'll be plenty of people who will be nice to you. There's plenty of fish in the sea, even if you're queer (and I'm not really sure you are hence why I asked).