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I can believe that having kids changes things. And yeah, I'd like to cut down as well. If for nothing else, then just my wallet lol.
I’m honestly lucky. I was drinking way way too much prior to my child. One month before it just clicked and I chilled out.
I haven’t smoked. How much is it per day? Whenever I look it seems super expensive.z
I buy R50 bags, which is around the price of a pack of legal cigarettes with some change left over. Although I think it's hard to compare prices of things across borders and currencies.
And this R50 bags are basically the lowest rung of the decent quality. And it's outdoor, so sometimes the quality is pretty close to indoor, sometimes it's not so great. And if the quality is good, it'll be a strict 5 grams but if it's standard stuff, the guy usually packs a little extra.
So it's also a bit difficult to give it a per day cost. A R50 bag can last me 1 to 3 days depending on a few factors.
Just want to add, I'm also my weed guy's movie and series guy. So I'm often getting free bags thrown in, in exchange for some movies and shit loaded onto USBs.