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GOOOOOOD MOOOOOOOOOOOOOORNING!!!!

I hope you have a swell day today. what do you plan on doing today?

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[–] mathesonian@ttrpg.network 1 points 4 hours ago

Hanging out at the house working on some projects. Then I am taking my partner out to dinner and a performance of Mean Girls the musical.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 1 points 4 hours ago

paperwork and cleaning up email with video streams in the background this moring. going to call a friend late afternoon or towards evening and will be relaxing at that point on.

[–] Xed@lemm.ee 1 points 5 hours ago

I’ll be hopefully having a relaxing day drinking some variations of black tea with some creamy oat milk and looking for screen protectors made of glass for my little computer

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 6 hours ago

Just landed in New Zealand. Today will be checking out Auckland

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 1 points 6 hours ago

I just had lunch, it's 13:18 here. I'm planning to bake some empanadas for the night.

[–] Zier@fedia.io 4 points 10 hours ago

I hunt perky 'morning people'.

[–] Perhapsjustsniffit@lemmy.ca 10 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Gonna see if our economy crashes thanks to fascism in our neighboring country.

[–] HawtTism@lemm.ee -3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I’m sure it’s actually just people who don’t agree with what you believe, so you call them fascists. Typical white female. Lol.

[–] Perhapsjustsniffit@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Trolls try so hard and fail so miserably so often.

[–] HawtTism@lemm.ee -1 points 2 hours ago

At least I’m not a miserable old hag who walks around hating everything every day.

[–] InvestBurnout@fedia.io 1 points 9 hours ago

Taking my car into the dealership, but I have to drive an hour. And then going to have Korean BBQ with my wife.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Oh man, today is a FULL day for me! My son has an archery tournament out of town, and then we are going to celebrate Tết at my best friends house.

[–] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 hours ago

Vietnamese Lunar New Year. It’s so fun!

[–] TTH4P@lemm.ee 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Good luck to your kid in the tourney!

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 11 hours ago

Thanks! He’s gonna do great, the dude is pretty damn good!

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 3 points 11 hours ago

TFW it's good morning at 8 PM. Time zones are a cruel mistress. I'm now at my local mosque listening to sermons and waiting for the group prayer and free food, then I'll go home and study for my exam (read: watch anime and sleep).

[–] TotallyNotSpezUpload@startrek.website 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Joining a protest against right-winged fucks in Germany. Same for next Saturday and the Saturday after that.

[–] HawtTism@lemm.ee -1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Wow. So brave. You really can’t tolerate people who don’t think exactly like you. Imagine being a grown fucking infant.

I put it in words even you can understand: Fuck off!

And welcome to my blocklist. :)

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (3 children)

Drinking too much coffee and doomscrolling from my bed until I get my hands on another bag of weed later and can function (somewhat) properly again.

[–] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I've been there homie. Depending on my tolerance cbd can really help me slow down. It makes being less high way more manageable for me and therefore much easier to wean my usage down.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I should look into where I can get hold of CBD products. We don't really have dispensaries and stuff around here. It's legal to have but not to actually buy anywhere (or sell) lol. I think it is approved for medicinal use though.

Although you can get a grade of weed here that's basically a step away from being a hemp plant. As far as I know, that can of stuff is heavier on the CBD ratio of things. Doesn't taste great though.

[–] pebbles@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 hours ago

There some solid online US companies if you can buy from them. I've really enjoyed outdoor from beleafer.com.

[–] HawtTism@lemm.ee 0 points 4 hours ago

Imagine being a grown adult, completely oblivious to responsibilities and chores, all because “I need my weed.” Jesus Christ, what a soft fucking sad specimen you are.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

This is kind of sad buddy :/ sounds like too much weed

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Lol I guess it is. And I'm absolutely addicted to weed. Anyone who says that isn't addictive hasn't experienced the lack of appetite, insomnia and general lack of will to live when you're a heavy smoker and you go without.

It's still probably cheaper therapy than actual therapists and pharmaceuticals though.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I hope you can feel better. I used to drink too much, I still drink but significantly less after my child was born. Makes me feel 100% better.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I can believe that having kids changes things. And yeah, I'd like to cut down as well. If for nothing else, then just my wallet lol.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I’m honestly lucky. I was drinking way way too much prior to my child. One month before it just clicked and I chilled out.

I haven’t smoked. How much is it per day? Whenever I look it seems super expensive.z

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 7 hours ago

I buy R50 bags, which is around the price of a pack of legal cigarettes with some change left over. Although I think it's hard to compare prices of things across borders and currencies.

And this R50 bags are basically the lowest rung of the decent quality. And it's outdoor, so sometimes the quality is pretty close to indoor, sometimes it's not so great. And if the quality is good, it'll be a strict 5 grams but if it's standard stuff, the guy usually packs a little extra.

So it's also a bit difficult to give it a per day cost. A R50 bag can last me 1 to 3 days depending on a few factors.

Just want to add, I'm also my weed guy's movie and series guy. So I'm often getting free bags thrown in, in exchange for some movies and shit loaded onto USBs.

[–] bunkyprewster@startrek.website 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Heading to my step mother's funeral

[–] HawtTism@lemm.ee 0 points 5 hours ago
[–] CCatMan@lemmy.one 1 points 9 hours ago

Going to home depot to help my kid do the free activity there.

[–] plactagonic@sopuli.xyz 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Riding my bike. I am on tour (look up my older post) and I have only nature without much civilization right now so not much else to do.

But it is slow today, had a cold night and campsite is in valley so I didn't get sunshine till 9:30 and my gear is still wet.

[–] Inf_V@kbin.earth 3 points 12 hours ago

wishing you the best of luck, friend! stay safe.

[–] therealbabyshell@lemmy.ml 1 points 11 hours ago

Going for a walk in the country and a few drinks to relax

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 1 points 11 hours ago

Lunch, plan child party, study/work, dinner, drink.

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 1 points 12 hours ago

Try and go back to bed