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Two of my friends, also ADHD, have had a sustained experience on meds which was agreed upon by them to be something akin to "The Spirit of Cleaning visited me at midnight as usual; only now it wasn't midnight, it wasn't out of control, and it was on command both starting and stopping".
I've not had any such visits yet (though I've previously, while not on meds, definitely had the "Midnight Spirit of Cleaning" visits) nor taming of the spirits, but I have found that starting small tasks and finishing them is much easier, so you know, I'll fucking take it. The level of utter dysfunction I formerly had is... hard to imagine that it's been most of my life 'til now.
I wasn't medicated until my early 30's, so I get it at least. The anxiety and the depression that came with not being medicated sucked ass as well, so take that very seriously if you need.
Same boat, has taken years of therapy as part of my treatment plan to start working through those learned behaviours.
ADHD sucks ass.