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well tbf the situation is complicated and i can easily see how somebody who has autism can easily run into difficult situations here.
part of the phenomenon is that the societal rules are never really laid out clearly, it seems to me. consider: women dress prettily because they like to. if you notice it, though, you are an asshole. compare that to a different situation: somebody plays violin, and you notice their violin, and ask them "hey, nice violin you got there. do you practice a lot?" and it would be considered normal interaction, if you're meeting them at a bus station or sth (at least in the country that i live in; that, too, differs from place to place). so, where is the difference?
the difference is that our society has a weird relationship to human bodies. on the one hand, people cannot live without one. on the other hand, society seems to have an outright schizophrenic relationship to the human body. talk about it and you're a weirdo, no matter what you say. it's called "objectifying", even though people seem to have no problem talking about how good somebody did in a sports competition, even though that is completely objectifying as well (after all, your muscles are objects, aren't they?). so, where's the difference?
Uh, I feel like you are missing a ton of context.
Relentless heckling is a thing, so it’s understandable that this is a touchy subject.
Appearance is also more tied to a person's perception in society. It’s like telling someone "Hey, you look wealthy today! Good job making money!" Not like commenting on a casual hobby.
Even taking the violin or sports example, wording it like “good on you for putting in the effort” would still sound very condescending.