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[โ€“] sp3tr4l@lemmy.zip 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Like... just say hi.

That is not very good advice for the described situation of randomly walking past someone you don't know and trying to compliment them.

'Hi' is a greeting, not a compliment, and using it as a compliment in the described scenario would likely be even more awkward and intimidating than 'You look nice...'

A greeting implies a response to that greeting and probably a conversation following that is expected.

So now, the girl/woman is going to either outright think, or subconsciously run through:

'who is this person?'

'do i know this person?'

'why do they want to talk to me?'

'what are their intentions?'

...in the span of a single word.

This is terrible advice for the described situation, far more likely to illicit fear and panic than what gandalf described his attempt at a compliment illiciting.

[โ€“] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

Ugh, you know what I mean, just like nod or something if it feels appropriate. It doesn't have to be "hi" the form of "lets start a conversation."