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I can't offer much but to say I'm quite jealous, lol. My wife and I have researched just about every possible opportunity to do the same, just to find everything either doesn't apply to us or is just out of reach at this time (and for the foreseeable future). Asking for help around this topic typically leads to an insane amount of backlash online, so I've found...
Yeah, the Italian subs on the other place weren't very kind when I asked a few years ago.
If I might offer some possibly applicable advice, hire a genealogist if you think you're eligible but are stuck. I spent ten of hours researching what seemed like a dead end. We hired a genealogist who found what I needed in less than two hours and pointed out another eligible line I didn't know qualified.
We've explored that route pretty thoroughly, unfortunately... Neither of us are eligible.
If you're able, come as an expat. There are lot's of jobs that allow you to stay and after 5 years (differs by country), you can request citizenship.