This post is "FYI only" for blahaj lemmy members. It is not a debate, and is not intended for non blahaj lemmy users to weigh in and offer opinions.
I recently received reports of a feddit.uk user espousing transphobia. Specifically, this was a feddit.uk user refusing to use the word cis, repeating the "adult human female" dog whistle, and claiming that trans women are not women. I approached a member of the feddit.uk admin team and raised my concerns and sought clarification of their stance on posts like this, where the transphobia is mostly dogwhistles, and "civil disagreement" on the validity of trans folk.
I was told by the feddit.uk admin that their preferred response is this kind of transphobia is to "sort it out through discussion and voting". However, the comments in question are currently more upvoted than downvoted, and little "sorting out" has occurred. The posts remain in place.
At this point, the admin stopped responding to my messages despite being active elsewhere on lemmy. When it became clear they were ignoring my messages and had no intention of removing the posts in question, I made the decision to defederate the instance.
I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.
I think if you want your users to avoid stuff like this you shouldn't put in a spotlight like you did here.
Thanks for your opinion, @knatschus@discuss.tchncs.de. Note that nobody asked, and Ada specifically stated in the post that this is not the place for you to chime in with your enlightened thoughts about our instance.
You're welcome
"enlightened"
This is called transparency, not putting it in a spotlight. We don't close our eyes from the world, we just don't want to be confronted with hate and discrimination everywhere and have nobody do anything about it. So if drastic actions like this have to be taken to achieve this, it's good to be informed about that.
Sentiment here seems to be appreciation for the actions taken, so why do you think you can speak for us on this behalf?
I spoke for myself, because i found something weird in the post, what makes you think i spoke for you?
You're not a lbz user. The user you're replying to is. This impacts her, not you.
Yes.
I apologize for sounding so confrontational, but I didn't think it was fair of you to judge Ada like this when you're not affected by this.
I want the community to have a choice. Federation lets people have that choice.