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Like, why does a gym attract so many dickheads. I'm just there minding my own damn business when I overhear dudes talking about how they are 'going to get so much pussy for lifting' and whatever dumb shit. It's a constant stream of male garbage coming from all around you. My fault for not wearing headphones I guess.

Is that why you lift? Really? Are most gym bros just terminally insecure man children? Fucking hell man. Who unironically talks like that? I know I'm probably in a bubble as a sober, vegan communist but still.

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[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I misinterpreted their comment and wasn’t really looking at the big picture.

and letting those desires clash with others' humanities.

I don’t think it’s an inherently dehumanizing phrase in every context but maybe I’m just being needlessly contentious. I agree that it’s not something anyone with social awareness would say

[–] 10000sandwiches@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Can you give an example where using the phrase "getting pussy" isn't inherently dehumanizing?

[–] Lussy@hexbear.net -1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Would you say getting good dick is dehumanizing? I understand that gender dynamics are different in our patriarchal franework but in a vacuum it is not inherently dehumanizing in any significant sense

[–] 10000sandwiches@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 12 hours ago

Both of those statements are literally dehumanizing, are you sure you know what that word means?