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This was disappointing to read. This post was talking about a specific type of person that was not you, it was not about "how all older white men are the enemy," and you took it personally. When someone gently told you that you weren't being targeted, you doubled down and got even more defensive.
I'm sorry, but no one was making sweeping generalizations. We're talking about a very specific situation that was never stated to be all men.
I don't understand how your feelings are hurt by a post that had nothing at all to do with you. Judging from your comment, you were never one of the bad ones this post was calling out. It'll be okay. And there may be other situations where it makes sense to talk about blanket distrust of men that might make life harder for genuinely good guys, though it's not relevant in this post specifically.
But do you understand how offensive it comes off to equate MAGA Nazis on the same level as mens' feelings being hurt? The rule of law is being ignored, people are being disappeared, we're moving closer to Gilead, and the Lemkin Institute issued a genocide warning regarding MAGA blood libel and trans people. How are hurt feelings in any way comparable?
I wish we could have one post in a woman-centric community sharing difficult situations without one of the good men lashing out because they felt personally attacked.