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Despite how a lady at the bookstore “struggled with” my pronouns and bounced off “he” several times before settling on “they” cause apparently she couldn’t bring herself to say “she.”

Shit’s hard out there.

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[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 14 hours ago

slightly unethical (maybe?) life pro tip: it's not illegal to lie

as long as you're not going to use the bathroom in a red state or doing legal work, you can just say you're cis and have POCS and act like it's REALLY rude for them to say that. maybe even throw in a "from a woman too. Damn thought you'd understand our struggles" or something like that