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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by WhyEssEff@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

Just some nice clearing the air of ambiguities. Do not doxx yourself.

For instance, Lea CrossCode (my pfp) is my lofty transition goal, and that's one part of the reason I'm so attached to her as a character.

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 56 points 1 year ago

Changing my pronouns here is the most progress I've made in transitioning. IRL I still look and sound like a guy and that makes me feel like a fraud :/

[-] TheTaglineToldMeTo@hexbear.net 45 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

yeah same I live with insane hogs, so I feel stuck and like shit, but at least I can change the text on the hexagonal bear site cat-trans

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 43 points 1 year ago

Just figuring out your gender identity is a massive step to make, you've already made great progress! cat-trans

[-] IgnacioM@lemmy.ml 32 points 1 year ago

You don't owe anything to anyone

[-] heartheartbreak@hexbear.net 25 points 1 year ago

Transitioning is mostly an internal process tbh and you are already inside of it! It's both being and becoming at every step of the way, with all the frustration and anticipation that entails.

[-] Catradora_Stalinism@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

exactly the same, but that doesn't make you fake. You will get to your happy ending one day.

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