Jokes aside, it's all about confidence. If anything, fake it 'till you make it. I was terrible with girls for a long time until I stopped caring and just went for it. Then I was amazed how easy it was.

[–] rotopenguin@infosec.pub 8 points 1 year ago

That is excellent good advice that everyone should follow and implement fully.

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[–] flying_sheep@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

Stop sweating it. Don't focus on it when meeting people. It'll happen, and it'll be better if you come to it by being an enjoyable human being.

[–] Squirrel@thelemmy.club 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lower your standards?

[–] mihnt@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hole is a hole.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 1 year ago

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[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 year ago

I only have 5 months now.

[–] ComradeKhoumrag@infosec.pub 1 points 1 year ago

Masturbate furiously until you fuck someone

On a more serious note, there is something good about not getting that need satisfied. Everyone's different, but I have noticed a tendency in people that get that need satisfied very early on, and those that don't.

There are definitely exceptions to this, but generally speaking, I have noticed those that get that need met have less excuses to grow, or sometimes grow so much with the person they love, that they end up losing a bit of themself

Outside of my own experiences, there's a YouTube channel I found recently "HealthyGamerGG", really cool stuff there

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 8 months ago

So... how are you doing so far?