Look. It's pointless to compare yourself to others. Everyone does things at their own pace, on their own time. Who cares if someone has lost their virginity before you have? Genuinely, it doesn't fucking matter. Life your own life, and speak your own truth.
I would like to see the width of this distribution. statistics without error bars are MEANINGLESS!
Yep. Lost it at 22 here. Granted I lost it in a bath house gangbang so that might make up for a few things.
Ohhh – was trying to remember where I knew the small of your back from
Oh! It was you who crawled under the sling for a better look!
Virginity is fake and made up.
Also sex is fun but not some revelatory experience(but what do I know, Im just a lesbian, a group which famously has many more orgasms than average), eo not base your self esteem on having it or not having it.
It also isn't a substitute for intimacy, which when I talk to people who are weird about not having sex, I see them conflate needing a hug or to express their feelings with having sex.
Rant over.
To be fair, Someone that has "more orgasms than average" saying not to worry about it is like a rich guy saying money doesn't buy happiness.
No, it is like a rich guy saying "Money doesn't make you more mature, spiritually enlightened or a better person"
Thank you for your rant.
To add: Your SO is not a replacement for a social network. Don't hunt for the one, place people you click with at all distance levels as you get to know them. A healthy social network leads to healthy relationships.
fuck im 17 for only 9 more months wtf do I do
Jokes aside, it's all about confidence. If anything, fake it 'till you make it. I was terrible with girls for a long time until I stopped caring and just went for it. Then I was amazed how easy it was.
That is excellent good advice that everyone should follow and implement fully.
Stop sweating it. Don't focus on it when meeting people. It'll happen, and it'll be better if you come to it by being an enjoyable human being.
I only have 5 months now.
Masturbate furiously until you fuck someone
On a more serious note, there is something good about not getting that need satisfied. Everyone's different, but I have noticed a tendency in people that get that need satisfied very early on, and those that don't.
There are definitely exceptions to this, but generally speaking, I have noticed those that get that need met have less excuses to grow, or sometimes grow so much with the person they love, that they end up losing a bit of themself
Outside of my own experiences, there's a YouTube channel I found recently "HealthyGamerGG", really cool stuff there
So... how are you doing so far?
Was 23 before I lost mine. Wasn't even fun.
Hell yeah 🧙♂️
Just one more thing I’m completely average at.
Sorry, 17?
