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I am convinced that decentralisation and publicity and secure private chats are not mutually exclusive if you use the appropriate protocols: On the one hand you can have ActivityPub, which is suitable for communication and discoverability between instances, and on the other hand you could use a secure messaging protocol such as Matrix, which could then be used for private chats.
I mean in the end you want to be discovered by other people so you need to provide some info about you. The good thing is that you decide what personal information you want to share with everyone and what details you only want to talk about with certain people.
For your information: We already have a centralized, open source dating app. It's called Alovoa.
The dev is also open to activitypub support
Problems with problematic users can be solved by explicit whitelisting, or having credit card verification.
Yes if there’s one thing I want out of a dating app, it’s being able to give my CC info over to any schlub who wants to spin up an instance
Does not have to be a random instance but a reputable one like mastodon social, and it can be optional, people give cc to random shops online and you could do a charge back or even use paypal and patreon (as long as they respect warrants), reportedly 1 in 6 women gets raped or experience an attempt at rape so making women safer is good.
have fun with that
Well if you’re convinced I’m sure everyone will jump on board then!
Dude what are you talking about? Have I ever mentioned that I want to convince anyone? Stop hallucinating things.