For example, beehaw.org is pretty happy to defederate. It tries to give you a more moderated and curated environment. Feddit.de is slow, laggy and often outdated, and they just deactivated federation in general (at least they said so, to me federation seems to be still working) to avoid that session stealing vulnerability.

In general, federation is pretty buggy right now, with federated posts/comments having a decent chance of not being replicated.

So the choice of instance really does make a difference. But there is no help at all up front to choose the correct instance.

And just hopping over to another instance is also not a great solution, since people are used to build their social media account. It's not some anonymous throw-away thing.

[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I the case of lemmy, i feel like it's definitely some anonymous throw-away thing. We're not here to build a follower base are we?

[–] squaresinger@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Much less than on other platforms, that's true, but after a while you do start recognizing usernames again.

[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

Sure there's exceptions like SrGrafo on Reddit but most are here to lurk around or engage in random discussions