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this post was submitted on 22 Nov 2023
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What annoys me is I'm the only single one at our family gathering so I get fucked over. I have to buy for 3 families worth of individuals (12 total) and in return I get 3 gifts because they go as a team.. It's not even getting less stuff that's the problem, it's just a giant pain in the ass to buy for that many people. If it was up to me we'd just get shit for the kids and be done with it.
If they go as a group to get something expensive then I don't see the problem.
Ex: let's say the amount is $20 per person but six people go together to get you a $120 gift then there isn't a problem to me. If they go together to get you a gift and the gift cost $20 total then yeah then there's a problem.
That's why I only give gifts privately and to my little brothers and mom, nobody else gets anything. I also don't attend family get together so there's that.