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I'll start: if they have hobbies it's a green flag for sure, doubly so if their hobbies are outlets for creativity.

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[–] bestusername@aussie.zone 34 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

I don't know how to answer this properly, I've only had 3 serious/long term girlfriends and I married the 3rd nearly 20yrs ago.

I'd have to say being down to earth, farting on the 3rd date and just laughing about it.

She's always been my best friend, one of my dickhead mates I can let my hair down around and we can both be ourselves, all day, every day.

[–] yum 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I don't get why is farting in front of others THE sign of a great relatioinship? I've been thogether with my SO for 4 years and we still don't do that, out of respect, I suppose.

[–] JimmyMcGill@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

Because people need to fart. Being able to do it in front of your SO means you are comfortable with each other that much and personally it just means I can be me. There’s no barriers and both of us can just relax.

[–] bestusername@aussie.zone 2 points 1 year ago

Normal bodily function.

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