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I do this same thing. It's there a name for it? Peer defiance?
I think it's just called you guys being contrarian
You could say this if I behaved that way with every recommendation, but it is how something is recommended that is the issue here. Context is key.
Me too, when people recommend me tv shows.
On paper they're series that I would like, but the recommendations years old and I still haven't watched them.
Demand avoidance is a thing, I specifically hate it when people are all “BRO, how have you not seen this, it’s the shit. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOURE MISSING!” So I just stay away as a fuck you I guess.
I find the people who do the whole "how have you not seen [...]" Have not matured enough too have the awareness that other people have different life experiences. Lack of empathy.